I was just wondering what goes through your heads (those that partake that is!) I was having an argument about this with a friend. This is my situation:
Drunk on holiday - slept with a woman same night (don't do it often and don't like it and won't be doing it anytime soon again), all her doing pretty much - but I did go along with it so am also to blame. She made sure I got her number and have seen each other a fair bit and talk often so can't really call it a one nighter I guess.
I probably really should ask her but I'm afraid she'll take offense. Does it means you really, really like the guy if you give it up on the 1st night or are you just after the sex?
I'm not judging her or anything I just wanted some opinions, she is an amazing, bright young lady and I'm lucky to have found her!
2006-08-16 06:17:16 · 12 answers · asked by Helper Dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will get different answer for different women.
I had a one-night stand before. I was sober, i cannot even say that i was drunk. He was cute and handsome and he was incredible in bed. The best sex ever!!! He gave me his number but never called him (I wanted to, because i wanted more). I don't even know why i did it. He just seduced me.
My roomate, she had a one night stand with a guy. They exchanged number and have gotten to known each other the past two years. Several months after the had slept with each other, they became boyfriend and girlfriend. Now, they are happy and still together.
If i were you, i would go ahead and give it a try. Talk to her! Maybe she gave it up because she saw that you were attractive, but hey, she could end up falling in love with you.
2006-08-16 06:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be both, she could have really liked you or she could have just been after sex. But that doesn't mean anything. If you both are into each other then that's good. I had a slept with my boyfriend the first night we met and we are now going on 4 years being together.
2006-08-16 13:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the individual. I would never judge her harshly, though she was taking a chance on catching disease, getting pregnant (possibly), or even hurt, since she was taking a chance with a stranger. I always wonder how many times these people have done it you know? So to me it seems like her judgement is not the best, but again, maybe it was just one of those things where she fell hard and fast for you. You'll have to get to know her a lot longer to know so good luck to you hun.
2006-08-16 13:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the answer can be both. I have had a one night stand just for sex. But also, I had sex on the second date because I really connected with the guy and was totally into him! It was very intense and I was incredibly comfortable with him,so I just went with it. It was the best sex of my life! God, he took me places I didn't know my body could go. But the relationship didn't last too long. Only a year. So, it didn't work out, but maybe for you it will. I would recommend asking her. Be genital & tell her what's on your heart then you'll know for sure.
2006-08-16 13:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Hutch777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes one night stands can turn into alot more. sometimes people are just into the sex. if you stay in contact with that person and remain friends, then i wouldn't call it a one night stand, i would just call it being very, very close friends. you can't judge her unless you judge yourself too, because she couldn't have done it without you. apparently she finds you attractive if she slept with you. it is just going to be left up to you two whether this thing goes further or not.
2006-08-16 13:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i think if a guy has the balls to do that then they aren't men at all because you have no idea the sickalogical problems it causes girls i got 1 night staned 3 times and all three times have scard me so don't do it it is so imor
tal of you
2006-08-16 13:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by rosy_red237736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both were drunk, so it was drunk sex and maybe she did like you cause she actually gave you the right number and you 2 is talk. So leave the past alone and concentrate on the present time.
2006-08-16 13:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants you to call her then she likes you. Sometimes you just get caught up in the heat of the moment........however, I can see where it would make you feel dirty and gross. I think it has only happened to me 1 time and I was ashamed, and I did not allow him to go all the way either! Just wanted to get the hell out of that situation.
2006-08-16 13:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by SCALISI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would ask around.
Maybe she doesn't do this kind of stuff often, maybe she was just drunk , but I think I really check into it.
If you are interested in her, how about dating and getting to know her before you have any more sex.
2006-08-16 13:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it..but..just the sex....i have to admit that i have had a 1 nite stand here and there..im not proud of it all.....but if im really diggin the guy..no sex the 1st nite...u wanna make sure he comes back again...
2006-08-16 13:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋