I recently don't want to have sex with my boyfriend but when he falls asleep or when I go to my home I masturbate; and that had happen like 6 or 7 times. I want to know what's wrong with me. Can you help me.
2006-08-16 06:10:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
You sound tired. Get some rest, do some exercise routine, get a boyfriend that turns you on.
2006-08-16 06:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You will have to judge for yourself with perhaps the help of your physican and/or nurse - whether and how much having any kind of sex alone or with someone - has an effect on your health.
Some believe sex does nothing bad to your health and some even say that sex is good for your health.
Others claim that sex is bad for your health. Whether you do it alone or with someone.
Your diet may be affecting your desire to have sex whether alone or with someone. Try to avoid all meat, fish or eggs. These kinds of foods may be contributing to your sex desire.
Avoid all intoxication. Intoxication may have us doing sx things we never really wanted to. And some types intoxication, such as beer, mess with our hormones making it difficult to resist the temptation to have sex.
Sex desire also results in a natural intoxication produced by the body. It is generally known as endorphins. It is more powerful than cocaine or heroin. But, it may be possible to conquer over this through yoga disciplines.
The egg and the seed are designed for producing a child we are prepared both materially and spiritually to have. If we are not prepared then we are wasting time and energy.
There is nothing wrong with your not wanting to have sex with your boyfriend. You just need to work on cutting down and cutting out the masturbation. Have you tried yoga?
2006-08-16 13:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for this is because you have sexual urges and desires just like everybody else. The human body produces pheromones that cause us on a subconscious level to want to have sex with someone. Consciously, we may not be ready to, or simply don't want to have sex with the person that we are with, which makes us tense up and ignore our bodily urges, and when the other person is in a harmless state, like asleep, or at a different location, we calm down and relax, letting those unconscious urges take over. These urges are what couse you to want to masturbate.
2006-08-16 16:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by B-Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe is that you are bored with the same type of sex. You should change positions there like a hundred of them or buy sexual stuff to play with your boyfriend, rent or buy movies (porno) so you can both get hot. And there are a lot of other things you can do. If you love him don't give up.
2006-08-17 14:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Viktor N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, masturbation is normal and healthy. I think u should discuss why u don't want to have sex with your boyfriend. It's quite apparent that u are still horny once u leave him, so masturbation is fine. Talk to him though. :)
2006-08-16 13:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by scrawndogg25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't openly talk about sex with your boyfriend then why are you naked with him. The only way to have good fulfilling sex is to have the ability to express what it is you want from a partner that doesn't always have to be physical needs it can be emotional needs also. Men and women don't automatically know how to please each other be with someone that can express their desires and allow you to express yours. It is your responsibility to teach the other what pleasures you and it can lead to wonderful expression of yourself and wonderful discovery of yourself.
2006-08-16 13:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Karen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that u dont wanna hav sex but its that ur bf is unable to arouse u or satisfy u but by the time ur body starts responding he is asleep or away and then u use masturbation as ur tool so now ur interst is masturbation once u get satisfied wid sex u ll enjoy it so now just try it
2006-08-16 13:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend had kinda the same problem and it was because she started taking a different kind and stronger birth control pill. It takes three months for a new pill to become fully effective.
2006-08-16 13:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur not attracted to him anymore. Or maybe ur just bored. Try different routines, or fourplay. Try something freaky or something you've never done before. If that doesnt work then sorry hun ur just not feeling him no more.
2006-08-16 13:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by kimmiieeeeeeeeeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and masturbation are two different things. If you don't want to have sex with him, then don't. That is your decision.
Masturbate all you want... it's your body and your right.
There's not a thing wrong with you.
2006-08-16 13:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Doogie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋