see hes playing with his ying yang on the computer with some woman ! Now I know I should mind my own business but shouldnt a father step in when his son is doing somthing like that I mean ok Im 81 and hes 58 but I should step in right?
2006-08-16 06:04:36 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
LET HIM LEAVE HIS LIFE
2006-08-16 06:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the 81 year old father of the 58 year old man you caught playing with his ying yang on the computer with a woman? And you think you should step in?
Have you seen the question about men over 30 who still live at home with their parents?
2006-08-16 06:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er. No. He's doing what an adult has every right to do: play with his ying yang with another adult on the computer. My question is why do you feel you have to speak with a man who is almost 60-years-old about his sexual behavior. Come on. By now, your son should know what makes him happy and you should be able to accept whatever that is as long as it does not endager you, him, or someone or something else. You are 81 and time is very short. Live more of your own life and leave your son to his. Why go to your grave worried about silly things like your son's masturbation habits? I'd think you'd be trying to get more in touch with yourself so you can face the last years of your life with dignity, self-assurance, and serenity. Perhaps your own fear of aging prompts you to avoid your own issues and concern yourself with matters that are no concern of yours. Think about it.
2006-08-16 07:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a 58 year old man doing living at home with his parents anyway? He is in his room having a cyber fling at 3 in the morning? As long as he is not hurting anyone, then that is his own business. But, why isn't he getting some sleep for work the next day (or to look for a job?). It sounds like he has many problems that need to be dealt with. Arrested development? I hate to say it, but maybe you should have stepped in years ago.
2006-08-16 06:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally step in, and tell him to stop wasting your precious viagra on that damned computer. I mean, he's 58, we all know he's stealing your viagra so he can fool around on the internet like that, all the while, his Mother and your wife lies in bed at night, unsatisfied, and you have to get a glass of warm milk to help you sleep instead of giving your wife some sweet, slow loving.
2006-08-16 06:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real question~~~~ First , if he's 58 you shouldn't be checking his room. If you do enter a room where the door is closed you should knock and wait for an answer. If he's single and an adult it's HIS business NOT yours.
2006-08-16 06:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Let him play with his "ying yang." He's not the ONLY one in the world doing it. Companies "bank" on guys like your son.
2006-08-16 06:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by scrawndogg25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but why is he still at home?? A little old, but if he wasn't doing that activity in a community area then what is the problem? He is a grown man, taking care of business in private or what should have been in private. I feel bad that you saw that, but maybe next time you'll wait till the morning to "see" him. :)
2006-08-16 06:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Hutch777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont ever do that.He has his own life and should have his privacy . I understand being a father what u felt for ur son is right but still leave it up to him,he is a grown man.Take care
2006-08-16 06:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 58, still living at home, and can't find a live girl to do his thing with, no amount of intervening is going to help. He's already a lost cause.
2006-08-16 06:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all did you move in with him or did he move in with you. He is a adult - leave it - you might tell him to keep his door closed. He probably can't get it any other way - cyber sex is a joke - just playing with ones self. You got to know its better with a live warm body. Maybe he is so ugly this is the only way he can get any.
2006-08-16 06:16:04 · answer #11 · answered by Carol B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋