too tired for sex? Is it rude of me to be pleasured then fall asleep?

Question

ive just finished work, im tired and achey. my girls coming round tonight and no doubt she'll want some good lovin'

Answer 1

I pleasure my man all the time and not ask for anything back ... I can tell when he's tired ... and if I'm feeling horny ... I'll just give him a nice BJ .. and take care of myself later .. or if he wanted to watch I'd do it right then & there for him ... but if he watches we usually end up having sex ... lol ...

So no I don't think it's rude at all .. people get tired .. people get horny .. you can still take care of them both without upsetting each other ... it's just called communication ... !

Answer 2

Just let her know that you are too tired for action tonight and would rather do something with her that wont make you pass out afterward. She should understand, but make sure if she ever uses that excuse you respect it. Or just let her be on top - I mean, the girl can do the work every once in a while, cant she? That way, she will get herself off because she controls how the sex goes, and you dont have to do much more than lie there. Just dont fall asleep while shes doing it - that would be asking for a really pissed off girlfriend.

Answer 3

SOBE adrenaline rush it's like 2.99. Look at it this way man it's the fourth quarter and all you need is seven points to win the game. Dig down give her the busniess and then she will let you rest, I'm sure she knows just how tired you are but if you show her some love, it wont go unoticed. Plus with that energy drink you wont be all wired and full of energy. It just gives you enough to do what you need to do, take a hot shower and you'll sleep like a baby.

You'd want her to do it for you, so dig down a lil watch an under armor commercial get hyped a lil and give it to her ray Lewis style for about 20 to 40 minutes a few times and then crash. You might wake up to a hot meal.

Answer 4

If she wants some good lovin then she's not going to be 'satisfied' by pleasuring you before you fall asleep.

If you're too tired to do the whole thing, then maybe you should just concentrate on her, then she won't mind at all when you fall asleep afterwards.

Answer 5

It's just but normal to fall asleep after havin a good satisfying, fulfilling and pleasure rendering sex. What would be so rude is that you fall asleep while havin sex with your GF due from tiredness or that your teddy bear is achy because you're too tired from sex or from a hard days work. I don't think that would be fantastic.

Answer 6

Can't you explain to her that you feel worn out and just settle for some cuddles and kisses. Quality is better than quantity in this case I would say. You don't have to have sex in order to have fun with somebody you love. It's only considerate to give somebody the night off if they're too tired for sex

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Answer 7

Since when are men too tired for sex lol but if she is a good girlfriend she should understand that your just to tired tonight... but make it up to her BIG time when your not so tired

Answer 8

as long as yr partner has been pleasured too then no,its not rude..
if yr partner is hangin and ain't had any of the good stuff then u need to stay awake some more..apparently pro plus helps, but maybe too much..

Answer 9

Yeah that is rude, she pleasure you and once you've come you fall asleep, you'd better be careful as she'll get sick of the one sidedness and leave you as i would.

Answer 10

Yes, it is rude. She has needs too. How would you feel if you took care of her and she left you hanging? You'd be pissed! Just dive in and enjoy it. You'll get the strength!