i need to know some sweet little moves that are flirty enough to make him think bout it & subtle enough not to be too obvious. i really like this guy but i have to take things VERY slowly... please help me?! does anyone haveany hints, tips or anything for me? cheers guys!
2006-08-16 05:56:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here are some flirting tips from How to Make Anyone Fall In Love With You:
1.Smile broadly.
2. Throw him darting glances.
3. Look straight at him and flip your hair.
4.Look at him, look away, toss your head and then look back,
5.Lick your lips and parade close to him with exaggerated hip movement.
6.Sticky eyes-look him in the eyes,drag your eyes away from his as if they have been stuck with warm toffee.
7.Let your eyes slide down the nose to the lips, caress the lips with your eyes for a moment and then slowly venture south to the neck.
8. Guys like it when you go "Uuuummmm" or "Oooohhhh". Don't know why, they just do.
9. Be friendly and smiley, BUT play hard to get.
!0. You can never flatter guys too much, they'll never know you are being ironic.
11. Never use hints with guys as they just don't get it.
12. Don't give up, be cheerful but realistic.
13. Believe in yourself and think you're "the bees knees" and then other people (guys) will think so too.
Hope these help!
:)))))
2006-08-16 06:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha..this is a good one..you are asking guys too what are subtle flirting tips...well I have to tell you that guys are as a rule pretty dense, and subtle stuff goes right over our heads, we need the smack upside the head approach to make us sit up and take notice....Suggest you check out that Jennifer Anniston / Vince Vaughn movie...its pretty much true where guys are concerned.
Take me for instance, what do I notice...
A change in perfume...that will get my attention
Eye contact and a smile...that works but one has to be wary of that because often girls will do that even when they are with someone else.
A low cut blouse or a short skirt...I will definitely notice that especially if the girl goes out of the way to let me peek!!!
Winks...those I notice
Wearing my clothes...t shirts...or shirts...I notice that...and its sexy, even if it does kinda make me wince when I see someone tying knots in my 300 dollar Armani shirt!!!
Displays of a belly button with a nice dangle bling bling or a tat on the back or a peek of a thong...all those are worth noticing.
But you really want to make me notice it is when someone walks up in a club or at a party and yanks me onto the dance floor..
So there you have it...now it depends on how subtle you think you have to be to get noticed!! Frankly...Id say if you like him go for it because while you are being subtle someone else will be bold and nail him.
2006-08-16 06:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! Presumably if you are so close and best-friend-ish you can be honest with her. Don't try to trick her or manipulate her, it won't do you any good in the long run. Just ask her if you have any hope of getting back together. And if she says, "no," believe her! (You would be within your rights to end the friendship if that happens, as it doesn't sound like you can deal with her being just a friend.)
2016-03-16 22:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact and smile. Part your lips, slightly, and run your tongue around them. Look at him while running one finger slowly in a circle around the rim of a glass you are holding. When sitting, face towards him with your skirt slightly higher than it would otherwise be. Look at him while slowly running your hand up and down the side of your leg while sitting down. Let out a little sigh. Let your hair down and to the side, a little over one eye. These are flirty, provocative gestures that are sure to get his attention.
2006-08-16 06:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to know more about him and invite him to neutral activities such as a Sci-Fie movie, museum, playing with friends at a soccer game... The trick is to learn more about each other without being too good friends so don't invite him to confide to much ;-)
2006-08-16 06:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Dress sexier. By sexier I don't mean like a ****, just a bit sexy. Everybody goes for the looks first.
-Approach him, try talking with him
-Find something he could help you with. make it something that it's small, but for some reason you will need "a man's help" with
-Get one or two or your females friends and ask him to bring some of his guyfriends for a group date. A whole bunch of people hanging out will be less obvious
2006-08-16 06:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your 'kind' and 'sweet' self.
acknowledge any similar interests as they come
Be a true friend.
He'll eventually start to get the idea, or show the same himself.
2006-08-16 06:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by QOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just say funny little things.Like a comeback from a remark or just cracking jokes. Or Maybe you could accidently brush hands.
2006-08-16 06:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay attention to him and act like you care alot about him, this way he'll know your interested without acting agressive, make alot of eye contact and smile
2006-08-16 06:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont flirt just hit him off or tell him u like thats all well i dont have 2 do that so dont really know i heard it works though
2006-08-16 06:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by veronica m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋