I have a hard time remeber thing and i messup a few thing sometimes. BUt my g/f remebers everything that is going on in our life and never messes up anything. The only reason so can do all of this is because she doen't do anything but sleep and hang with me. I have alot to worry about with school, work, bills, and our relation ship. She is always fussing at me about what i do wrong and is alwaying saying i am srewing up stuff. I am not her little *****
2006-08-16 05:56:29 · 15 answers · asked by ooodjkooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a man, be confident. You deserve better of course. 1st, Why she's treating you like this? Because she wants to feel needed and appreciated. She points out your weaknesses to show her help and capability because she is too free and got nothing to do. She wants you to appreciate her and notice her work. And of course the way she is doing it is wrong. But she doesn't think so. I know it may turn out ugly but you have to let her know this. If it is hard to say, to avoid argument, write it down and leave it for her to see. Praise her while you point out her faults.. Neutralise it ;p If my assumption is wrong, then maybe she is not a nice girl then. Someone who just wanna nag and nag and find faults in everything and anything. I'm positive, I think it's not so bad. And, I don't know if you're spoiling her. Just be a mature man, lead the relationship :) Do what you should to stop this.
2006-08-16 06:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 5?
2006-08-16 06:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some kahuna's and tell her you don't like to be treated that way! What is the deal with her doing nothing? Why doesn't she have a job or something else to do. Completely up front... you're going to end up taking care of her and she's going to let you! She will always treat you that way. Get out while you can!!!
2006-08-16 06:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by chrihutch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hear is a suggestion! GROW UP and she won't have to treat you like a child. Oh and by the way "relation ship" is one word! What are you, 5 years old? Learn how to use the "spell check" button!
2006-08-16 06:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're letting her. It's going to turn to verbal abuse if you keep allowing her to continue it. You need to tell her how you feel. She needs to respect you and accept you for all your wrongs and rights. You don't need a mother, you need a friend. Tell her that you have to deal with all these other stuff in your life as well as her. Do it in a subtle way of course.
2006-08-16 06:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be u let her get away with it put ur foot down n tell her u dont like the way she treats u n if she cant show u some respect then she can find someone else to run over
2006-08-16 06:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining. You act like your 5 she's gonna treat you like your 5. If it's so bad, dump her.
2006-08-16 06:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she thinks that she needs to teach you and protect you and i think that if you show her that you are no longer i 5 year old that you are resbonsible enough then she will stop treating you that way and maybe she loves you and do not want you make mistakes
2006-08-16 06:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by minty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow her to! thanx 4 the pts!!!
2006-08-16 06:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by shawn_0523 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act more responsible and u will earn her respect
2006-08-16 06:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋