She is single mom. She only had one boyfriend (her son's father, lasted 6 years). The last dating she did was 8 months ago. I have dated and had flings, but nothing serious since 6 years ago. She's 23, I'm 25. We now eachother for 5 months. Been oficially together for 3 weeks. On the first real serious talk about me maybe leaving in 3 months, and how to deal with it (staying together) she backs off. I think she was in a cloud and the reality wasn't her first choice. Now suddenly she starts saying that "your not the man I thought you were" "I don't want to give you false expectations"... After asking her this: "ok? you don't want to kiss me, hold me, hug me, laugh with me, cuddle in silence, watch a movie, go to the beach and see a sunset, make love, etc etc (things we did)... she said: "it's not that"... I'm confused!!! I sent her some yellow tulips yesterday (her favorite) and a poem I wrote... and she didn't call, not even a thank you. Patience vs her undecisiveness. Tips... help!!!
2006-08-16 05:54:07 · 4 answers · asked by JD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is trying to tell you it is over. Leave her alone.
2006-08-16 06:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like it's over. Usually when a girl wants space she really means good bye. I hope this isn't the case for you but I would be looking to move on. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-16 06:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude sounds like she's dropping the bomb, But there are better things out there trust me.
2006-08-16 06:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by PMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then give her some time. most likely thats her way of saying its over.
2006-08-16 06:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by katec249778 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋