How do you be cool get friends hang out how to talk in middle school.
2006-08-16 05:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
As Trite as it sounds be yourself and don't let what other might say about you get you down
2006-08-16 05:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by denise e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool is a matter of perception. If you think you are cool, so will others. I don't mean to walk around being a pompous jerk, I mean to like yourself enough that you show confidence. Know what you are talking about when you open your mouth, but don't be a "know it all." And then, know when to keep your mouth shut. Some things do not need to be said out loud. When you are right, remember- you don't have to prove it.
Other than that, people like people who are interesting, who listen when they need an ear, people who are kind, helpful, and friendly. People who are happy. Especially the happy part. No one wants to be around someone who is depressing. Also, mind your personal hygiene. I'm sure you already do...
Also, and I don't know if this would apply, but people don't look as harshly on appearances, (like zits) as you may think. Anyone who would -- is shallow. You don't want shallow friends anyway. Some of the most beautiful people I know are quite large, and some have skin problems, but their heart is beautiful, and it shows up on their face. Hang out with beautiful people and have a fun year.
2006-08-16 06:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by savannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You'll find that people will be drawn to you easier because of this. If you try to be "popular" or "cool" you might find that other students resent you for that.
By being who you are that will make you both cool and popular to a lot of people. Those that think you are'nt cool or popular because you don't put up a "front" should'nt really be your friends in the first place.
2006-08-16 06:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be true to yourself and stop trying to impress others. Those popular in middle school may not be in HS and once they get out of HS, this popularity does nothing for them. But if you are true to yourself and live for yourself, that will carry you much further in life.
2006-08-16 05:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen mean girls well i had become popular like that using friends and dumping them finally when you become popular you don't have to use your friends anymore you just need to keep your eyes on them because they might try to do the same thing i have learned this also you could try going out with an older person like 2 years older dint worry just be your self and you will succeed
2006-08-16 06:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Diana D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be cool.Cool kids are mean trust me. I have too many cool kids in school.Just be yourself. You only in Middle school but so am I.so I know what to say.
2006-08-16 05:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Julie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself & u'll get the kind of friends that will be ur friend for who you are. It's definitely a rough time in ur life so make the right choice & stay true to who you are.
2006-08-16 06:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and do not try to act cool, because if you are trying to be cool you will just look worse.
2006-08-16 05:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by oh-so- Laid-back 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you're self don't think you are a bad as* or anything.And don't do anything thats dangerousto impress others like drugs and alchohol or ciggs.
2006-08-16 05:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make coolness and popularity your ultimate goal in life, that's how.
2006-08-16 05:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Nani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋