2006-08-16 05:47:28 · 21 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only do the one to get the other.
2006-08-16 05:49:21 · update #1
cos they are different things and mean different things
2006-08-16 05:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do YOU think that cuddling and making love are the SAME thing?
One does not necessarily lead to the other. You have a lot to learn about women - affection is important, and should be given without the pressure of it leading to sex.
Why bother being in a relationship if you only want the physical part? Sounds to me like she'd be better off without you.
2006-08-16 05:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Cuddling: Expressing care, love, tenderness without attachments
and can be done before, after sex, or better yet; when you are not trying to engage in sexual activity. Cuddling is kind of expressing some sort of unconditional love to a women. It may or may not lead to sex. It's better not to use it for that purpose.
Making love, well, I do not have to explain that, I hope!
2006-08-16 06:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are two different things, silly! Cuddling is not sexual, and doesnt have to lead to that all the time! Cuddling is one of those things you can just do out of "love & care" not just to get what you want...because it can't just be all about you, if it is- your girlfriend is wasting HER time- and you misewell have a relationship with yourself and Mr.Hand.
2006-08-16 05:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u give her a cuddle WANTING sex ur less likely 2 get it than giving her a cuddle NOT WANTING sex. if u cuddle her with no expectations and she thinks ur just being affectionate then she will want u more. a girl always needs 2 feel loved and comforted, if she knows ur there 4 her she'll be happier in herself and have better sex 4 u both!
2006-08-16 10:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EXACTLY Dude. Cuddling means tracking or trailing while lovemaking is penetration he he he. Perhaps you want to know why your GF is stunningly amazed when you say you're done while you never have had any penetration yet. Are you a virgin? How can you possibly satisfy you GF and think that she had enough orgasms if you're just cuddling her all along in one time without making love? Or perhaps you want to tell us that you've been making love to your GF without cuddling her? Oh my . . . jack it on Jungle Boy.
2006-08-16 06:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bully Charmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are different,
cuddles are nice when you feel low or sad and they don't ALWAYS lead to other things!!
cuddles show you care and don't just want someone for sex!
2006-08-16 07:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only cuddle so you can get sex???...thats very shallow.....having a cuddle shouldnt only be a prelude to sex.......it should also be another way of showing effection......it sounds like you only want your girl for sex,which i hope isnt the case......maybe its time you changed the way you think.
2006-08-16 06:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by julie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are STUPID!!
Is a boiled egg the same as a fried egg, i think not!! They may come from the same thing but they're different textures, get my drift??
2006-08-16 06:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she prob'ly thinks making love is just having sex whether its love sex or just plain old sex..u need to explain that if love is involved then it don't make any difference..cuddle or "shag"..all the same.
2006-08-16 06:15:30 · answer #11 · answered by mitchbrowno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋