Right then kiddies, how many dates before you sleep with the person.
Honest answers kids
Personally work on 3 -5 dates.
2006-08-16 05:28:46 · 37 answers · asked by Ross B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is that seduction should occur between 7-12 hours of time spent in comfort building. This would generally be perhaps the 3rd date of 3-4 hours.
If you are not at that stage after 12 hours of 1on1 comfort building then the likelyhood of sex fades away rather quickly and she should be ejected or used as a female pivot to attract new targets.
Viking xxx
2006-08-16 06:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Viking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you let down all of your guards and you are comfortable with the person. You have a sense of what the person is all about. You know for a fact that there is no other one the person is sexual with. You trust that person with your precious gift. Hopefully the person will be your soul mate!! There may not be a number of dates that will take to get you to that point.
2006-08-16 05:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by ReRe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, if you are directing your question at kids, sleeping is ALL they are doing.
I'm not a kid, but I shall answer your question anyway...and for me it depends. There is no set # of dates...it depends on how I feel about that person and how he feels about me, and where I hope the budding relationship might go...having sex on the first date, isn't conducive to having it go anywhere positive in the long run (in general).
2006-08-16 05:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have known this guy for about 10 years before I went out with him, so it was actually on the first official date, that I slept with him.
2006-08-16 05:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had one night stands which are no strings attached but its best when you wait a few dates anyway. more of a chase. but not too much. 3-5 is good depending how close the dates are
2006-08-16 05:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number of dates is irrelevant. You sleep with someone when (1) both of you are mature & responsible enough to accept the consequences of your actions, and (2) both of you are commited to a monogamous & loving relationship.
2006-08-16 05:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the feeling and the right time,right place.
i were virgin till i was 25(before i had few dating,but never bang-bang with anyone 'cause i didn't feel the right time ,right chance and right person)
but later when i dated with my boyfriend, it was 10-12 date before we made love.
we still together till now,i'm 31.
2006-08-16 05:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if i really think it can go some where( there is a future for more in the relationship) then i wait a month if its just physical attraction i wait 5 dates
2006-08-16 05:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-5 dates for me too
2006-08-16 05:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's rare on the first few dates...I'd wait till I got married or dated for a month or so, and knew it's both what we wanted...
2006-08-16 05:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋