cause why talk about it sooo much .. like if she is trying to prove something.. when someone is sure of themselves they dont have too advertise it so much right?
2006-08-16 05:26:57 · 42 answers · asked by HOT LATINA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be one of those girls who did not have a male to look up to when she was growing up. If her dad died or left the family when she was young, it has an emotional effect on girls. She would be starved for male attention. Secondly, she may have been sexually abused when she was young. That would have an effect on her also.
2006-08-16 05:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by scott 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, typically, no I don't think they have low self esteem. It may actually be VERY high. Bullies have low esteem, and have to put other's down to make themeselves higher. However, those that speak of sex all the time are probably easy hoes, or just love sex.
I know other girls where all they do is talk about sex, and it's trashy. Just don't let them get to you. So let them talk about it all they want, it makes them come off like sluts. Lol just listen, hopefully they'll say some stuff and you can learn a few things.
2006-08-16 05:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly possible...some women use sex to feel better about themselves...thinking if they are desirable to men, then they must be okay people...they don't stop to think that there are guys who will have sex with just about any willing woman, so the fact someone will "do" her isn't any indication of her worth or value as a person...
It's sad really...that some chicks seem to think sex is the only way they can 'sell' themselves (not literally)...they don't think that people will appreciate them enough for their personality or knowledge or WHO they are...so they use their bodies to get attention...
2006-08-16 05:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as I grew up-I found that I felt I was "missing" something and tried to fill that space with sex. didnt work-but I think alot of people do that.I'm sure its just coming from a place of insecurity for her. Try changing the subject to another interest of hers will probably give her a boost of self esteem she needs.
2006-08-16 05:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be she's in hoping to get some and is acting out that she has had a bunch of sex... Depending on her age... Some like to brag on themselves no matter what the subject is... Could be sport. Math Skills. and so on... If its to over bearing just change the subject or avoid her...
2006-08-16 05:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Self esteem" is nowhere near as important as people seem to think that it is, and when we blame low self esteem for any behavior we don't like, we do nothing at all to improve our understanding of human behavior.
A girl who is "always talking about sex" probably enjoys sex and has quite a bit of opportunity for it. Why would she enjoy sex? Well, because sex is tremendously enjoyable.
It's silly to bring "self esteem" into the picture.
2006-08-16 05:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's correct if your sure of yourself then there is no advertising needed. But maybe she is just horny and can't get any so she is trying to find a taker. But who knows hopefully she doesn't have low self esteem.
2006-08-16 05:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on the girl there are some perfectly normal women out there who just really love sex and theres nothing wrong with that
and some women do it for attention thathat they feel they cant get on thier own
different reasons for different people
2006-08-16 05:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by David A. Geary 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabey shes just horny or she likes sex alot and shes good at what she does! Dont be jealous that shes not afraid to express her sexuality, join in the conversation once in awhile. Mabey it will add a little spice to your sex life!
2006-08-16 05:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree on the low self esteem theory. Problem is, people who have low self esteem don't usually realize it... and others with low self esteem will never admit your theory is correct.
2006-08-16 05:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by mama_bears_den 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋