I'm seeing this really sweet guy who seems to like me a lot. Yesterday, he told me he doesn't want our relationship to only be about sex, which is totally fine with me.
I've never met a guy like this before. From my past experience, guys usually don't shun sex. By the way, there's nothing wrong with me physically.
Do you think it's a turnoff when a guy isn't sexual enough?
2006-08-16 05:14:47 · 30 answers · asked by CC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you ever think that this guy might actually like you alot and respects you?? I tried telling a girl that once and she didnt believe me. She thought that something was wrong or that I didnt think whe was pretty. What I was trying to do was show her how special I though she really was to me. It was hard too because I was sexually attracted to her. We did eventually have sex and it was great.
2006-08-16 05:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mattness615 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe this guy thinks you could be the one so he wants to take the time to get to know you before crossing that line in a relationship. And no, its not a turn off when a guy isn't "sexual" enough. What's too much for you might be just enough for me. Besides, its more about quality over quantity....
2006-08-16 05:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Is he really NOT sexual enough 4 you? Or is it just that he said he didn't want it to be ALL about sex? That is a turn on, if he is that sensitive. But if he is not sexual enough for you personally, then you could have issues with that. You might want to shop around!
2006-08-16 05:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound as if this guy really likes you. I wish more guys would like to get to know their girl before getting sexually involved. Don't ruin it by rushing sex. Get to know each other that will make the sex when it happens all the more special.
2006-08-16 05:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a turn-off at all. It means that he wants & likes you for who you are....not what you can do in bed. It sounds like you have a winner!!!!
No doubt, he doesn't shun sex either....He's trying to respect you.
My boyfriend is the same way. We are together for many, many reasons outside of sex. The sex is just icing on the cake.
2006-08-16 05:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a healthy balance... Does this mean he doesn't want sex at all? (I hope not) It sounds like he wants to go places, do things, and really get to know you. The sex would be an added bonus, just not the focus of your relationship. If that's the case, hang on to him!
2006-08-16 05:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i think it's sweet. most guys think of me as easy and want any relationship with me to be full on physical. if a guy said that to me i'd take it as a compliment b/c that means he really cares about me and what's inside of me. he probably really likes u and doesn't wanna rush into having sex b/c he wans to get to know the real u and have a truly real relationship with u. take it as a compliment cuz i think this guy is great for u! good luck!
2006-08-16 05:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥_mrs.smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be a refreshing change. Ive kind of had my limit of guys who do NOTHING but think about and try to get sex. Its like dude do you have any other things on your mind ?? That is kind of a turn off for me. Just be careful he's not using that to make you think different of him. You know guys, they can be real jerks.
2006-08-16 05:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he is not sexual enough or doesn't like it but rather that he wants to focus on your relationship rather than it being just about sex
2006-08-16 05:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by wingedgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he isn't "sexual enough" . It sounds like he's mature enough to want more to the relationship. He is interested in YOU; who you are, that you are about.
But if you want more sex, I'm sure he'd be willing to accomodate you.
2006-08-16 05:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋