I have been involved with a married man. We have an understanding and we meet upon agreement. He helps me financially now and then.
The thing is I want someone for myself and I have met this guy for two months who I want to give my full attention. He is divorced and is available. He was made aware that I was somehow involved, but that I was willing to end it if he was serious. He has since asked me to make that decision.
Now, how do I break it off with the previous, and is it too soon to make a decision. I really want it to work with the new one, but then there is the matter of giving up sure for unsure.
Any advise, Guys any word?
2006-08-16 05:08:21 · 3 answers · asked by rizzio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said it yourself. He is MARRIED. Don't take his calls anymore and don't call him. Remember you reep what you sow.
2006-08-16 05:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the married guy is not a "sure" thing for you at all. He can dump you at anytime.
Why are you debating starting a relationship with an available man who is interested in you? You're already sabtaging the relationship before it even gets off the ground.
Just be honest with yourself and admit your " d* whipped by" a married guy
2006-08-16 12:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The married guy is lucky to be getting anything from you at all, so you have no obligation to him - since you don't have a ring from him. Feel free to date anyone you like; how you break it to the first guy it up to you - you could be nice or not, depending on your personality or mood.
I'm pretty sure the guy would take you back if dating didn't work out, regardless of how you leave him - he has no options, since anything he did to piss you off would just get back to his wife if you wanted to.
2006-08-16 12:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋