Thnx for your response. My bf has asked me to change myself for my betterment.Some times he gets angry and ask me to leave.We both know that he is short temper.Even he says, what if I don’t change, he will never say yes. Is it something he is scaring me so that I will change?He is possessive which makes me happy.If I go out/talk with other guy,he gets angry.Does he feel insecure?All I want is to be with him,I dont know how to handle hin when gets angry.I am under tremendous pressurefrom my family and so I am talking to other proposals.Which make me feel like dead.I hate it.I feel like am I a bad girl.When I talk to my parents, they mentally bias me which make to talk other proposals.I don’t know if I am doing any mistakes.I love my bf and want to be with him and be honest.But from his side, verbally I have never got any commitment, neither he says I love u.Will he feel bad if I leave him.He wants me to meet him regularly.I luv him & I could go to any extend for him.plz tell wht z right
2006-08-16 05:04:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any guy who says or asks you to change isn't worth it at all. You are you and if he can't see that and love you for who you are than he is a waste of time. Now this short temper of his...if you can't handle it now what are you going to do in the future. He wants you to change have you ever thrown the same line back at him. Like ask him why he can't change...maybe his temper..maybe saying nice things to you..saying I love you. Basically hun this guy isn't for you. You have even said so...by stateing that there are things that he doesn't do and that points out that those things you kinda want. Over all every one knows you can't change a person and it sounds like this guy wants to do just that and if you want to leave him than do it for you don't worry about him getting mad or upset if you do. You need to think about you and what makes you happy. About the parents thing pressureing you about this..tell them to basically f*(%^ off. Its your life...you need to do what makes you happy not them. Never let anyone pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do that is just cause for no happiness.
2006-08-16 05:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by tami_aur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a two way street! One way will never work out. It seems as though you are doing all the giving. Myself I wouldn't waste my time with him. He isn't giving you respect, love, or compassion. He can't even say that he loves you. That is sad!! Move on with someone who cares. Cocoa
2006-08-16 12:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him,because he get angry when you talk to other guys that means he want total control over you.
2006-08-16 12:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't even finish reading your question -- but this should be a red flag to get out of that relationship
2006-08-16 12:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person doesn't love you at all...he just using you.....get out before its too late.....
2006-08-16 12:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by ladylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋