my ex-boyfriend always wanted to go one step higher than where we were like if i had given him a handjob, he would want oral sex, but i would say no, i'm only fourteen, and then he would ask why i wouldnt other than i'm 14, and then he would say then how about sex and again i said no, but i mean i liked him alot i just wouldnt want to do that sort of thing, but what i really want to know is what a true gentleman would treat me like?
2006-08-16 05:04:00 · 7 answers · asked by Loveable23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest with you....If your ex truly loved you he would not pressure you to do things you werent comfortable doing. Again it all come down to the age. If he was mature he would understand you. Now dont get me wrong, there are men out there over 30 and still dont understand, nor act like perfect gentlemen, but I have to give you credit for standing behind your morals and not giving in. THat shows your true maturity. A gentleman would never push on a subject when he clearly knows that his gf is not ready or comfortable with certain acts. Stand strong sister and your'll find that perfect (and I use that term loosly) gentelman. PS I do think 14 is too young to be sexually active, but be safe and carefull.
2006-08-16 05:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true gentleman like myself would not pressure u 2 have sex until u were ready 2 have it, let u have a good time w/o worrying about who ur with. E-mail me at rapper4life288@yahoo.com if u want a real true gentleman.
2006-08-16 13:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Josh D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, if a guy would ask you to do things that you don't want to, not only he's not a gentleman, he's not even decent. i'm sure you want to please him but if you feel uncomfortable and you'd express your feeling, then he has to respect your wishes. otherwise, i don't think this relationship will last. please rethink the whole situation. and know what is right for you as a person.
2006-08-16 12:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentleman would treat you a lot better than this little boy - drop him before he tries to get you drunk and date rape you.
2006-08-16 12:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. he shouldnt pressure you into doing things you dont want to do.... and wait a minute he shouldnt even be thinking of anything sexual, youre 14 goddamit!
2006-08-16 12:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a true gentlemen like me would wait untill ur ready or not bring it up that is wat a true gentlemen would do or open the door for u or walk u to ur classes etc
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2006-08-16 12:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by sgt_webber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sl ut your 14! omg!
2006-08-16 12:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by jimoelfke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋