if i do tell him there is the possibility that he won't feel the same, and if he does it'll just hurt cause we can't start anything meaning cause he's leaving. HELP
2006-08-16 04:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by LuLu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what do u have to lose? U want him to leave and not know? Take a chance, if he likes u you'll feel great, if he doesnt , hell he's moving anywayz
2006-08-16 04:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never find love without being vulnerable. Not that you two could bloom to love if he's leaving, but the point being rather we seem to always "wait" until we think we've found a sure thing so we won't get hurt. Nothing is a sure guarantee, it's all a chance and unless you're willing to take one and get hurt you won't have the rewards of being trully close to someone. Being scared of being hurt is normal and natural no one likes to be, but it's a risk worth taking. I think.
2006-08-16 12:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by puffjonesforpresident 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way life goes. First ask youself does he give you any hints that he may feel for you the way you feel for him? And be real with yourself first. If he does not give you the same vibe then do not tell him. If he does then be my guess. As grewn adults we have to accept the things we have no controll over and if you tell him and he does not feel the same way acept it. He if does feel the same way at least you told him, but also accet that he is leaving.
2006-08-16 12:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him because there is a cahnce he feels the same way but if he doesn't feel the same way than he'll be leaving anyway. You should give him your phone number if he feels the same way!
2006-08-16 12:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by snmemerald99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Not knowing is worse than the rejection!!! Live life to the fullest and you will be happy!
2006-08-16 12:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some as a going away gift....
2006-08-16 11:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by dyno_bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he leaving for good or i s just goin on vacation?? welll either way yeah you should tell him
2006-08-16 11:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋