We met at a club, and she seemed happy to have a guy approach her that night. I'm really feelin her, but I think I made the mistake of sleeping with her. Should I keep calling her? And how would I know if she is not interested, and just had a so called good time for the night we had (one night stand)? I'm thinking of asking to be my girl as well.
2006-08-16 04:51:31 · 16 answers · asked by 2Cool4U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like her, then start with being a good communicator with her. Tell her how you feel--without coming on too strong! You might scare her!! She might feel the same way too. If she doesn't, then move on and don't stalk her. lol...Good Luck to you.
2006-08-16 05:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would advise against chasing a girl that slept with you the first night you met... but whatever, that's your thing. Just call her and ask if she wants to go out.... or tell her you're going out to the club with your buddies and see if she's going that night. Tell her you guys should meet up somewhere before you go to the club. Go from there.
2006-08-16 11:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by BrownTown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats odd that a guy has sex with someone the first night, and then actually likes her! Are you one of those sentimental guys? Id chase her, thats awesome! If you like her, call her! Im sure she'd feel flattered to know she wasnt just some one night stand. <3
2006-08-16 11:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a damsel in distress...she was at the bar to find someone to go home with...and more than likely not the first or last time she will do so...that would qualify her as not the my girl type...but occasional one night stand...it is what it is and doubt it can be what you want it to be.
2006-08-16 12:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honestly think about it if she slept with you the first night just think of how many others she slept with on the first night and who is to say that if you did get with her she wouldnt be doing one night stand with someone else while your somewhere else id think a little more about it
2006-08-16 11:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if u called her the 1st time and no ans. get over here u were to much for her or u need some sleep
2006-08-16 12:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her she may be feeling the same way.She may think your a jerk and just used her for your pleasure if you dont call.Call her and ask her on a formal date and actually get to know each other and if shes not interested in anything more then she will let you know.
2006-08-16 11:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
great man! go for it, you want to know if she is interested? Call her back. Maybe she is waiting for you to do it. Give it a try. It wont hurt.
2006-08-16 12:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her -- don't keep calling if she's not interested- she'll think you are a stalker-
don't fall to hard- take it easy one day at a time -ask her out again see what she says
2006-08-16 11:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well! dude whats the hurry,slow down and let her call you.keep your pants on next time and don`t be in a hurry.if she`s likes you she will come around,if not she`s gone! don`t cry!
2006-08-16 12:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋