Do you think that love at first sight is based on looks, or do you think that it's in their body language?
Maybe you think that you can fall in love without even meeting someone, just by chatting.
What do you all think?
2006-08-16 04:41:58 · 67 answers · asked by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything is possible. Love at first sight...I tend to believe more of an infatuation at first sight. I think one can fall in love with a fellow chatter, because this touches more underatanding and feelings rather than a first look at someone.
2006-08-16 04:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe in love at first sight. Whether it will develop into real love is another business altogether, but still possible.
I think love at first sight is not based on looks only, more on hormones that are spread in the air around each of us, and are received subconsciously by the brain.
With chatting, one may fall in love, but there the risk of being lied to is even greater than in real life, when body language and behavioural patterns are also a clue to the person - and the hormones play is missing online. But still, it's not impossible, yet I would think no commitment should be made until you've met in reality, and not just once, either.
Being in love is different from loving, although not entirely separate; loving is the more lasting emotion and is partly determined by conscious choice (not entirely, but it is present); being in love is very much less controlled, but more exciting. I have no doubt a couple can experience both, both ways, together, and then it's real love...
Enjoy!
2006-08-16 04:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do. And the reason for that is that it happened to me many years ago. And it has never happen in exactly the same way since. I first set eyes on Eleanor across the IBM canteen. She was sitting having a conversation with colleagues. I noticed her immediately and immediately I saw her as someone special. Everything about her spelled gentle and sensitive. Her appearance, her presentation, her body language, her manner and the way she interacted with other people all spoke of gentleness and sensitivity. Now why this was all so attractive to me I do not know. Perhaps that can be the subject matter of another question. And then I had some amazing luck. Eleanor moved in to one of the bedrooms in the house that I was sharing. Because of low self-esteem I never made a move on her but we were great friends right from the start and we loved talking together about many things. And when I got up in the morning and looked at myself in the bathroom mirror I saw Eleanor's happy expression on my face. How amazing?
Martin Camden.
2006-08-16 04:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by optimaxim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first click! lol.. I do believe in lust at first sight. I used to believe in in LOVE at first sight but not anymore. Beware of falling in love over the net. I do belive women can do this because we are such emotional creatures..we can build bonds through a brick wall.
Men are different..it takes a man a lot longer to fall in love. They are also very visual, they need to see, touch, feel, and have you around for a while before they actually fall in love.
Most of the time over the net they will only tell you what they think you want to hear to keep you around and eventually talk you into having sex. Be careful with this. hold onto your heart..if this is what is happening with you. I was really hurt by someone I met from here. Used me for sex and to make his ex jealous. All the while telling me he loved me "deeply and completely" and was even planning on moving here and marrying me. Of course that was all a lie. So just be careful.
2006-08-16 04:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would like to believe there is such a thing as love at first sight...whether it be a sensual kind of love or something in the persons mannerism's. Special love i believe comes around after you have spent time with the person who attracts your attention.
Keep searching for the strongest emotion possible...
Good luck to you.
2006-08-16 06:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it would be Love... It's something that you are lacking in your life that this person is fulfilling. LOVE Is just like a drug, when you get that good fix you are addicted. you are addicted to being treated a certain way. It's your responsibility yo determine if it's really LOVE or a convenience of love... Majority of the time it is the words and the things that the person is saying that makes you think you are in LOVE... You can be in love with some one body, but that should come later into he relationship.
2006-08-16 04:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 43 years to a remarkable & wonderful woman. The most consistent person I ever had the good fortune to meet. She remains exactly the same person I first set eyes upon. So love at first sight worked for me!
2006-08-16 06:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by anthony_amos2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is intimacy and trust gained with limitless bonding, talking, as well as struggle and hardship. And though appearance or look may attract, it is only lust at first sight. Wait for their personality to shine through, and then judge if you are really in love. Continue to talk with them, for that is good, but don't rush things either. Lust can sweep you up into its wings and spit you out in a heap of pain. Let things run their course, and hopefully, you will enjoy whatever happens.
2006-08-16 04:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by the Nightwalker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. I'd just have to experience it to fully believe it. I mean, I met a guy once and he left the best impression on me. I couldn't stop thinking about him and to this day, I still can't. Sadly, I never got his name and wish I could talk to him again. But, I'm afraid that the image I have of him will be ruined because I know I was taken by his first impression. I still don't know what he's really like.
2006-08-17 06:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Do_As_Infinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I do not believe in love at first sight. I mean if you love someone you would do anything for them right - so a person that you just glanced at and you think you are in love with - would you die for them right then and there? Pretty crazy. Nope don't believe it but I do believe in infatuation and lust
2006-08-16 04:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋