2006-08-16 04:35:36 · 6 answers · asked by lori W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have been married for 3 years i have three children of my own 12,18,20 and are all great childeren i now have two stepchildren and was not prepared to deal with the problems that i have had with them they are both adults 22,25 and i am ready to kill my stepdaughter who is 25.... her and her boyfriend are living with us and she steals my clothes, money, makeup, anything that she can get her hads on...she has no respect for my space but expects me to respect hers, she is a slob, and never cleans up after herself, my husband whom i love very much gets mad at her but dose nothing to fix the problem...i get so mad that i have to just lock myself in my room so that i dont grab her by her hair and sling her *** out of the house....little back ground on the little brat... she was living on the street doing drugs and it was my idea to let her move back in for the 3rd time...she is working for the first time and i am very proud of her for that...but they save no money and blow it ...help
2006-08-16 04:44:19 · update #1
Tell her how u feel then lay down the rules of YOUR house, she can either deal with it or get out.
2006-08-16 04:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Neev 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my mom was in the same type of situation and she just about had it with this guys daughter who was a manipulative little wench. she was 18 at the time and my mom and him weren't married yet (they get married this weekend!!!), but she was tired of her attitude, lack of respect for both her and the father, her laziness and countless excuses for everything. She wasn't stealing, so there's a difference there. I would tell your husband, either she goes, or you go....that you understand it was your idea to have her move back in, but that was on the condition that she get help and turn her life around. Not steal clothes and make up from you. I would go and steal that **** right back! Put a lock on your closet door so she can't get in, i know it's a hassle, but she has GOT TO GO! I understand wanting to be there for your children, but it sounds like his daughter is taking advantage of the situation and you both. Maybe he feels at fault for her being on the streets before and is trying to make up for it in some way. Good luck!
2006-08-16 11:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck
My 58 year old Mother-in-law drives me crazy and she lives 60 miles away
2006-08-16 11:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by rranderson1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question???
Is she living with you? If she is, tell her natural parent to kick her butt out. She's an adult, let her start acting like one.
If she isn't living with you, ignore her.
2006-08-16 11:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doin't blame her - you already started the trip before she came along
2006-08-16 11:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to shag her or whats the story? is she driving you crazy with anger or is it lust? clarify
2006-08-16 11:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋