I've realized I have fallen back in love with my ex, "Jon", after four years of not being togther and not seeing each other much. We talk all the time,and we always have even after we broke up. He is my one and only best friend. He knows everything about me and probably more than I know. He says he likes talking to me, but I dont know how to take that...he has been asking to hang out with me and "snuggle" and he calls me/texts me at least once a day. but I just dont know how to tell him how much i like him, without completely freaking him out.
He and I were together for over a year when I left him for another man. The man and I have been dating, pretty miserably, ever since. Jon knows that i regret leaving him. I just dont know that he knows how mcuh I miss everything about him and being wiht his family, and his twin...
Any suggestions on what i should do?
2006-08-16 04:29:53 · 17 answers · asked by racingurl37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the flame has never died between the both of you. If you feel in your heart that this is something you want, then at least bring up the subject. Better to find out how he feels versus having any regrets later on.
There is a flip side to this though, you may also want to re-evaluate whether your feelings for him are genuine or not. Does it stem from the fact that your current relationship isn't making you as happy as it should? If things go sour with Jon, would you at least try to work it out, or leave him for another man (again)?
If it was meant to be, it was meant to be. Learn from your mistakes as to not repeat them.
2006-08-16 04:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you get over it, because u thought the grass was greener on the other side, and feel for fools gold.
(which is usually the outcome when u simply leave a man for another)
Let "Jon" make the first move if HE wants it.
YOU made your decision and should live with it.
2006-08-16 11:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by daaeck2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first get out of the relationship that you are in now so that will not be a down fall if it does pop off and second you should just play it as it comes because the last thing that you want to do is scare him off. when the time comes to bare all details you will no and it will be for the better
2006-08-16 11:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being an idiot, break it off with the guy you're miserably dating, and tell "Jon" that you won't betray him again. but only if you mean it.
Otherwise, stick with misery and tell Jon to buzz off so that he can go find a good woman without hoping you'll grow up.
2006-08-16 11:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by shorebreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the new guy and go with Jon. It sounds like you want some sort of guarantee of a steady relationship. You won't get one. Go with your heart and date the friend. Friendship is enduring.
2006-08-16 11:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by BeamMeUpMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u about JON , me and jon have been dating for 3 yrs, so i hope u dont do anything to break us up ! we came out of the CLOSET 2 months ago,and our parents think we make a FABULOUS couple, so leave jon ALONE !
2006-08-16 11:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel... go from there. Simple and to the point. Obviously he must have some feelings for you or he wouldn't be talking to you like this.
Best friends often make the best mates...
Good luck and God bless you both.
2006-08-16 11:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Big-Sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him what you just said. From the way he's acting, he probably feels the same way. The two of you need to figure out your relationship- are you friends or more than that?
2006-08-16 11:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy you are dating know. Don't worry Jon will come to replace him. If you say what you are thinking, he will think you are stupid.
2006-08-16 11:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try it tell him your feeling it could be he has the same feelings for you. oh you know just think of the place ya first met or said i love u and go to that exact place and say it one more time
2006-08-16 11:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bouncer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋