My ex AKA my baby daddy lives below me-We are just friends now . I see all the comings (no pun intended) and going from his place all the time-so I know for a fact that his poor innocent, naive GF is being misled-I actually feel bad for her-Do I tell her? Or mind my business? The stupid guy probably did the same thing to me....
2006-08-16 04:27:48 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Why. cause you'll look like ur hating on him, and his game, or trying to break them up. U are not her friend, so its not ur business. She must learn, and grow on her own, now if u guys become friends, fair game. But for now.......forget about it. PS, what if she doesnt even believe u? Then u look like a moron.
2006-08-16 04:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think the only way that you should tell her is if you two are friends, which it doesn't sound like it, so just leave this one alone. I am a Psych major and admitting this sort of thing to her would prove that, not only do you want to see this girl get hurt, but you also still have unresolved feelings for your ex. If you feel this isn't the case, then I would just stay put of it.
Also, it seems that you are probably more upset with the fact that he may have been cheating on you, than you are about the other girl's feelings.
If this really starts to get under your skin, maybe try talking to the ex about how you're feeling. Let him know that you're concerned that he mayhave done it to you in the past- he really has no reason to lie to you now, does he?
2006-08-16 04:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by sarahfdavis06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is confusing to technique emotions that are no longer mutual. I went by that still. i'm a 40 8 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old woman and that i became married for two decades to a guy i enjoyed deeply. He did no longer love me although and became abusive for the final 10 years of our marriage. I surely have been far off from him for the final 4 years now and nevertheless ponder whether i ever mattered to him. probability is you dont rely to people like that. Sorry you got your heart broken so youthful. i do no longer comprehend what it takes to heal yet i will allow you already know that element is a great help.
2016-11-04 22:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you totally want to f-up his life, go for it. However, just remember that what goes around comes around. He will probably find out where the newbie got the info on the other two whores he's screwing, and he's going to be pretty PO'ed when he finds out, don't you think? (If you absolutely CANNOT keep your mouth shut, write - actually TYPE - her an anonymous note & mail it without a return address!).
I suspect that the newbie will find out all on her own, when she pops up with a lovely little infection - especially if SHE's at least being faithful. At that point, just sit back and watch the show.
2006-08-16 04:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah as much as ur meaning it in a good way, she will probably think that u are jealous and want to break up what she has with ur ex BF.
so just stay out of it until the truth gets out ! indeed mind ur own business
2006-08-16 04:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your business cause the first thing that will pop in her head is that you are jealous of her and your only saying he is cheating so you could get him back. Now if you have a camera, take pics of him with other girls and send it to her anonymously.
2006-08-16 04:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. She might think you are trying to ruin her relationship because you miss you ex or something like that. These things don't last long. She will find out herself, and the guy will get his a** kicked. Or so I hope :)
2006-08-16 04:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably won't believe you and your ex will be ticked off... but if it makes some innocent girl more aware and possibly saves her from getting an STD because he sleeps around, then yes, I'd tell her. If it were me, I'd want someone to tell me.
2006-08-16 04:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her. Let her know that you've seen women coming and going while she's out, and that he cheated on you and would probably be capable of doing it again. She might not believe you, but at least you'll know that you tried to help her.
2006-08-16 04:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you want to stay friends with him.If you don't care, I'd tell her.I know I wish people would have told me things instead of keeping things from me.You never know, he could be taking the chance of giving her a STD or something.
2006-08-16 04:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by j_911_rhoads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋