2006-08-16 04:19:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It would be a good idea.
However, I would seriously question the matuirity of your relationship if this hasn't been brought up yet. It's really important to be honest to your partner/future spouse. Even if it's not what s/he wants to hear, you have to be honest.
2006-08-16 04:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should, even before you are engaged you should have been open with your partner. It is always best to get it out in the open if he finds out on the wedding night that could spoil your marriage on a whole. they will think that you hid it because while you were together, you were screwing around or something. Tell your partner now. It is very important.
2006-08-16 08:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to marry someone you haven't had sex with? Its always good to know exactly what your are in for. Great sex helps to hold the marriage together.
But if your fiance thinks you are a virgin, better tell him the truth before the marriage.
2006-08-16 04:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by b1ackeyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable enough to tell your fiance that you're not a virgin anymore, you shouldn't have proposed or accepted the proposal in the first place. Your relationship may not last as long as you think if you're not being honest with the one you love.
2006-08-16 05:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how honest you want to be with your spouse. I can't imagine that hiding things like that would be a very good way to start a marriage. If your spouse was also not a virgin, would you prefer to know now or later.
2006-08-16 04:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If someone is a virgin, their partner will need to know that for the wedding night. And if they're not, they need to get medical tests to make sure they're clean. Either way, that's a necessary conversation to have.
2006-08-16 04:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Megan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a woman, I would say yes there are tell tell signs of being a virgin. But a guy, you wouldn't have to. Just make sure you don't show off your experience if you choose not to tell her.
2006-08-16 04:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by One Sly Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely if you are a virgin your fiance needs to know so that he/she will be prepared. If you are not a virgin then I would not worry about telling he/she unless they seem to be interested in your past sex life. Alot of times he/she needs to be aware of your sexual history if you are not a virgin.
2006-08-16 04:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by rkb12584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be completely honest with your fiance before you even got engaged.
2006-08-16 05:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nat the Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes cz marriage counts on honesty and nothing else ,, so you can't continue your life if your not honest with eachother from the beginning.
2006-08-16 04:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋