i have dated a few guys who are out to use and dump so i am tired of the games and i need a serious relationship
2006-08-16 04:08:58 · 27 answers · asked by tosynno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont `get` someone to love you... it just happens.
2006-08-16 04:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try to be the kind of person that you would like to be with. Improve yourself, learn a new language or hobby. Be comfortable with being alone, not needing anyone to complete you. Then hang out in places/join clubs were you will likely find sincere guys who will stay with you when you need them. Most likely not in bars or sleazy joints. Maybe in church or some organization that helps the disabled or the poor....
2006-08-16 11:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by heapy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is not to need them. That is hard, I've been there. You need to be able to take care of yourself 100% without a guy and then maybe your behavior pattern will break when meeting somone. You will attract a psychologically healthy man who you will 'want', not 'need' and if you don't then you can do the dumping.
2006-08-16 11:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are looking in all the wrong places. You need to find a guy who likes you for who you really are...nothing fake, because if you fake something when they find out they will no longer be interested. So do things that really interest you..if you like to read go to the library obvouisly guys who like to read will be there. If you like exercising hit the gym maybe you will meet someone who has something in common with you. To find someone to love you takes a loottt of time and commitment on yours and your companions part. But dont fall in love to fast...let love happen, and it will be amazing when it does.
Good Luck
2006-08-16 11:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Udate or Yahoo personals and they will let you say what you are seeking. Be specific. I wouldnt date smokers or men with furry animals and they had to be at least 5 ft 10 inches etc. Lots were mad but too bad. You get to choose. If youre a Pisces it will be so easy. Good luck. Im remarried now.
2006-08-16 11:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby in the world u get 2 wen u giv 3.i mean v get what v giv.2 b in a serious relationship u just try to b in serious awe of the relationship.wen ever u get along wid a guy make him sure that u luv her and u know what these guys r much more serious in luv n all./
2006-08-16 11:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club. those people who can love you sincere be there for you, they are very hard to find but do not give up some where someone will love you who you are. just be patient. I am tired of the game too. hung in there when you met with Mr right it will last for ever. I wish you good luck.
2006-08-16 11:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn the tables on the guys..... get out there and start dating as many guys as you can. Enjoy your time out and let them wine and dine you...if you are distracted and not clingy then they will relax and get to know the real you. It sounds like you are really sending out the relationship vibes and that scares alot of guys....after a while you can start weeding out the losers and concentrate on the guys you want to spend more time with..... if the right one is there it will just evolve. Don't be to eager......
2006-08-16 11:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait like Paris and be without someone for a year than you will find the guy of your dreams.
2006-08-16 11:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Connie f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then change the type of guy you normally date and go for someone different.
2006-08-16 11:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break for a while, and just be independent. You have your whole life to be tied down...enjoy the freedom right now.
2006-08-16 11:13:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋