I know this question is pretty awkward, but I'm in an awkward situation. Basically, I met a girl in another country, in Central America, and I went down there to spend a couple months with her and her family. So after a couple weeks there we spoke about having a relationship, she agreed. Everything is great for one week, then she changes - says she doesn't have romantic feelings for me any more, yet doesn't want to break up because she knows (in her words) that I'm a great person for her. She's had this problem with other boyfriends in the past as well. So I was thinking it was a maturity issue - the classic women never know what they want - although she is 26 years old. But then I'm talking to someone I know who was a rape victim, and she's telling me that she used to do the same thing as this girl, and that she thinks there's a good chance my girlfriend is a victim of rape. So I'm wondering if there's any characteristics common to most rape victims that might be an indicator?
2006-08-16 04:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by J H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, we didn't have, or attempt to have sex, we did make out and she didn't have any issues with that.
2006-08-16 04:17:36 · update #1
If she starts to cry after you pull it out, that might be an indication.
2006-08-16 04:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Justin G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are some (not all) of the characteristics. Or it may also be that she is shy. You did not give full details which is completely understandable but she may be just extremely timid and I would know for I have done the same thing plenty of times before and probably have missed out on a good thing myself for rejecting because I was so timid... I wish you the best of luck and the best thing to do is ask her subtly and find out for if such thing has occured perhaps it would be good for her to seek psychological help and that of the law to help catch the culprit. Once again, Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-08-16 04:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♥reeses*pieces♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell. Some people may not tell u until they get to know u. Others may just come out and tell u. Some people may not want to get interment relations for a while. May have mood swing like big romantically then be cold turkey. Other may not let u touch them in a certain way. it really depends on the person.
2006-08-16 04:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by nuttyp16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very tough question and there are places on the net that you can get answers to your question. If you really think that is her problem then go ahead and persue it but make sure it is and that she will tell you if it is because most rape victims feel ashamed and try to hide it and she might get angry with you for prying into her business before she is ready to open up
2006-08-16 04:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 06:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-08-16 04:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by gbo1907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficulty in doing anything sexual.
2006-08-16 04:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not wanting anything sexual
2006-08-16 04:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tell u
2006-08-16 04:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show him ur penis
2006-08-16 04:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Vaisakh S 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋