This guy says he doesn't want a relationship and we had sex (we are both grown up) after flirting for 2 months. After the 'to have or not to have sex tension' is gone, I lost some interest in him (even slipped back home from his bed as soon as he felt sleep). I think he should be happy to find no attachment from me, but he calls me even more frequently (about 4 times a day), reports to me his whereabouts and emphasizes he is not seeing another woman. What does he want?? Another booty call?? Or just enjoy being badly treated??
2006-08-16 04:02:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He didn't mention sex at all after that booty call!
2006-08-16 04:12:59 · update #1
He just wants another helping of your trouser treasures. If you're not interested, tell him straight out.
2006-08-16 04:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really wants more from you than he initially thought. If you don't want anything more than what you have, you need to reaffirm this in no uncertain terms. Maybe you can just kinda laughingly tell him about a "friend" who is trying to remain booty buddies with someone, but is questioning whether or not the relationship has more potential. Then see how he responds. You are going to have to figure out what you want. Do you want more booty? Do you want friendship only? Do you just want to be left alone? Knowing what you want will help you know how you should go about dealing with this guy.
2006-08-16 04:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guuurrrlll!!!! You really put it on this guy....guys typically try and be the playas...but when we are the booty call culprits they get attached!!!! Tell him he was just a one time thing...or if he was good then give it to him again...but let him know that you are not interested in a relationship and that he doesn't have to call you...or check in...ha ha
2006-08-16 04:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sees you as a challenge because he's probably used to women clinging to him after sex! For you to leave his bed, he must be saying "wow, she's really not that into me! I wonder if I can scale all her walls"
If you're really not interested, be brutal, or he'll keep trying (groan).
If you are, then tell him, but keep the challenge going in the relationship (continue being your own woman)
2006-08-16 04:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, he wants more. How old is this guy? Would you be pissed if a man slipped to home after words? The problem is that you gave it up to him. Now he wants it more...he is hooked. You are going to have to tell him to stop calling and it was only a one night thingy.
2006-08-16 04:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lupy 0))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he wants to see if there is anything more between the two of you. If you feel there might be something more than late night visits between the both of you then you should tell him and maybe he can stop trying so hard to make you see that he wants you! Good luck!
2006-08-16 04:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the first conversation about just having sex has now changed in to he's liking you a lot more then he thought. It happens, if you're not happy with this you should talk again and explain how you feel. good luck
2006-08-16 04:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by darrenfanelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously enjoyed the booty call and has stronger feelings then you do. You might have to explain to him it is just lust and no love and let him down softly
2006-08-16 04:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself how often do you want to see HIM? And let him in on it and tell him once a day is enough for the phone if thats how you feel. COMMunicate your thoughts so he understands.
2006-08-16 04:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants a committed relationship with you. If you are not interested in that you should let him know.
2006-08-16 04:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋