My girlfriend and I had an argument, and well… to cut it short – it turns out that ultimately she was right and I was wrong. Big deal… LOL! Anyways, she is now giving me the silent treatment, and even though I have apologized, (numerous times, mind you) – there were still mean things said on both ends and feelings were hurt.
I suppose I just got over it quicker than her, so what are some things I can do to get her to forgive me quicker. I hate to admit it, but I am starting to miss her. So, got any advice?
2006-08-16 03:44:57 · 22 answers · asked by Answers Anyone 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a big deal that you were wrong. She was right and she knew it but you were so convinced she was wrong that you fought over it. Thats like telling her she's stupid and doesn't know what she's talking about. If it were me I'd take her to her favorite restraunt, get her a very nice card telling her how much she means to you and that you were wrong for arguing with her about it and you should have varified it rather than argue by the way flowers and her favorite candy won't hurt either.
2006-08-16 03:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by shatteredthought6 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as guys.... we all have things that we wont do.... we are stubborn. Just find out the one or two things that she's always wanted you to do...and do it for her. I dont know how old you are... but sending flowers to her work (to show her and her coworkers that you care), or even college, will make a good impression. The problem is that her feelings are hurt...and for women... feelings (i think?) can be their biggest asset or liability. While I dont know what was said... you have to prove to her... that you are a better person now.... when compared to the FOOL that said something so stupid!
Remind her why you love her.... (hopefully one of those is that she is the forgiving type) and tell her that you think this is something that will make you guys stronger in the end.
Good Luck!
2006-08-16 11:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be as sincere as possible. Tell her you really want things to work. Really apologize for the mean things that were said. Ask her what else is on her mind. Always use positive words, show her your affection...if she won't talk to you, send her a greeting card on-line. Try 123-greetings.com. Find a card that reflects your situation, with a sentiment of just what you are feeling in your heart, that should open the lines of communication...Good luck!
2006-08-16 10:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've gotten into alot of arguments with my gal were she was right, and i've apologized lots and she ignored alot, but what i did was before she got home i left notes in different places with roses that lead up to a candle dinner with soft music and then followed by a nice bubble bath. it worked but im not saying its gonna work for you give her time to relax and think it over because in relationship theres always gonna be arguments its not heatlthy not too so hope this helps and good luck
2006-08-16 10:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont beg
u will look foolish
buy her some flowers and chocalate
ask her to forgive and that u r sorry
and tell if u are still hurt by it that u understand
then give her space but dont tell her u r giving her space
call her from time to time keep it short and do not express ur feelings n emotionals
keep it simple
hey how are you
just call to say hi
let her talk if she wants too keep the convo short
she will come back to u
just DONT BEG FOR HER then u will give her all the power
2006-08-16 11:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her a bunch of her fave flowers like lots of them and say in a card that your sorry even more than all of the flowers, then call her on a no number or an number she doesn't know then say the following: I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry!! then before she can say anything say i love you again several times, tell her that God forgive us and give us chances everyday she must too. tell her that in every bodies angers you say things that hurt her tell her you are just human and want to make peace, PS put a little white flag in the bunch of flowers that will signify peace!!
good luck and in the future think before speak
2006-08-16 10:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize every day, and when she tells you to stop apologizing then you need to apologize for apologizing.
Also it's a good idea to back-up your apologizing with flowers then the next day stuff animals, balloons, candy, a coupon for a hug whenever needed, jewelery goes over well too.
Now before you start....
Do you love her?
Is she wortgh it?
if your nodding your head yes then go for it.
2006-08-16 10:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. She may be a grudge holder. She obviously doesn't let go of things as easily as you do. You've apologized enough. Stop bringing it up.
BTW, has she apologized to you for the hurtful remarks?
2006-08-16 10:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of taking try writting her a letter on how you messed up and want to take her out alone. If can afford to, try and take her to another town for dinner and a nice hotel. Good Luck
2006-08-16 10:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by atm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake is that you say she was right, but big deal. lol well its not funny now is it? If she was right then you should tell her she was right and you were wrong and then try not to be such an asshole the next time!
2006-08-16 10:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by lisapj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋