What do girls find attractive about guys? Please don't answer if you are a guy?

Question

I'm asking because I know I am not an attractive looking guy for most females. I'm short (at 5"4') and I've only kissed in a romantic manner one time (and I'm 27) I work with a bunch of teenagers at a local fast food company so I'm not around alot of girls my age bracket anyway. But what could I do to be more attractive to some females closer to my age bracket?

Answer 1

Um.. What i first noticed about my boyfriend was that he was himself and he was funny.. im not sure about other women. but humor gets to me.. i like a guy who can make me laugh.. and he still to this day makes me laugh.. My advice is to be youself smile a lot... and if you would like to meet the ladies.. go out with a few male friends and pick up some.. if you dont feel comfortable around them alone.. your friends will be there to help you out and you will probably be more relaxed.. hope this helps Katie*

Answer 2

I personally don't care how tall you are... and, in general, I don't care how much money you make. But you're 27 and working in fast food. Unless you're the manager and plan to be district manager some day, you may have lower-than-average ambition, and some women find that to be a turn-off.

What will help you, appearance-wise? Be clean. Be well-groomed. Don't smell like the restaurant when you go out, but don't bathe in cologne, either. Dress well. Don't dress like a teenager.

What else will help? Be courteous. Hold doors. Be thoughtful. Allow the lady to go first. Be friendly. Speak to the woman next to you in line at the supermarket, even if you're not planning to ask her out. It's practice. Don't for a MOMENT think that you'll find your soulmate in a bar. Go other places to meet the kind of woman you want to spend your life with, like charity events, museums, or wherever you think the kind of woman you'd like would be.

In the airport the other day, I saw a handsome, well-groomed man of about your height. He was standing alone. After a few minutes, a stunning 5-10-ish blonde walked up to him and put her arms around him and kissed him... they were obviously together. It's not height. =) Good luck!

Answer 3

Your height shouldn't be a problem because you get TONS of short girls too!

Why don't you try going on chatting sites where you give your name and all your interests, your age and you can choose what age groups you are willing to chat to. This can however not be safe but it is worth a try. Try making friends with a bunch of guys and go out with them to places where people in their late 20ies hang out. That way you can meet ladies in your age group and maybe become friends and who knows what else! If you don't manage to find someone then don't fret about it! Have fun being single!

I find guys who are decent looking, nice clothes, a clean look, respectful, nice shoes, nice butt very attractive! (this is what i'd look for in a guy who is 27 years old)

Kim

Answer 4

what you need to do first is get a real job at 27 you shouldn't be working at a fast food company that's for the teenagers maybe you need to change the way you act and look

Answer 5

I think that you should try to apply for a job that involves people your age but not necessarily girls. then you can meet girls through work and maybe throgh friends. when around girls be a friendly as possible because no matter what that is always attractive

Answer 6

Im a guy and i know it says not to answer but you need to have more self confidence in yourself there are alot of women out there, just be yourself and hang out with friends and go to a bar trust me in time you'll find someone, i think theres someone for everybody so dude good luck and keep your head up high

Answer 7

GROW.
I won't date a guy who's not AT LEAST 5'10
I read on MSN that the #1 reason girls turn down guys is because of their height.
So you'll need to have alot of stuff going on if you're going to attract a girl- now, you just said you're 27 and working at a fast food company and that you're not physically attractive? 1st I dont' care if you're manager, if we walk into McDonalds and you're there with a goofy hat on, we don't want to date you. Two- if you're not attractive, work with what you've got- you'll have to groom groom groom- do you have funny eyebrows, lots of body hair, are you pasty (tan!).GO WORK OUT- get a nice body- a guy doesn't have to have the hottest face if they have a six pack, its a trade off.
But most of all, just for anyone, tall, short, attractive- be happy with yourself and with your life. Go out and do what YOU love to do- go out alot with your friends (the love of your life isn't a pizza delivery girl coming to your house on a Friday night, ok?) and if you're happy, having fun, enjoying your life, you'll naturally be more attractive. No one likes a guy who's waiting around for a girl to rescue them.
And one man's trash is another's treasure- how do you think all those nasty fat girls get boyfriends and get married? You'll find someone good for you. And know that AS YOU ARE you are attractive to someone out there. But if you are picky- say you like really fit attractive girls with good bodies- you have to have the same standard for yourself. .. a fit attractive girl that works out isn't going to want to be with a fat slob.
OK!?

Answer 8

I'd say try to go places where there are more women your age, such as a night club or bar. Just show them that you are sincere but not too serious. Girls just wanna have some fun!

Answer 9

Get a different job, dress nicely, dance well and just be outgoing. My husband is only 5'4, so, that in itself isn't a real problem. There is nothing more attractive than confidence.

Answer 10

a good sense of humor and someone who will listen to her. Also don't talk yourself down. Confidence is the key. A lack of confidence is never attractive. Hope this helps ;).