There is this guy who is a friend and also my partner i like him and he likes me .He has a girlfriend but that ground is very shaky. The girl friend told me her self. Iknow very crazy situation. The guy doesnt want to persue our relationship because he doesnt want anyone to get hurt. But I want him sexually really bad!!!!!!!!!! What do i do?
2006-08-16 03:31:59 · 26 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its worst now! This weekend he spent the entire weekend with me and stated he wants me do i give it to him or not.
2006-08-21 02:25:42 · update #1
Slow down chica! If he has a girlfriend who he's not getting along with already, wait it out. He'll end it with her sooner or later. Be a friend, but keep those sexual feeling in check. The same thing happened to me in high school back in the day. I waited it out and when he finally broke up with her, we ended up dating a while later, and it was worth the wait. Until that point, we just became really good friends. Who knows, maybe that girl will end it soon with him too.. Wait and see...
2006-08-16 03:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by rollarcoaster brain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this exact situation. The guy persued me while his girlfriend was in Aruba, however. I constantly told him to choose between us, because love isn't a game. So I waited, and waited, and he constantly put it off. Then I decided to just end what was going on there by saying we'll be just friends. Anyway, I think your situation will be hard: the guy is with his girlfriend, which he has been with for some time? (you never mentioned how long I'm just guessing its been more than a few days) If he gave all of that up to be with you, and you dumped him.. then that would be two girls gone. But with you, he could start something new. I say let the guy decide.. he will eventually come to a decision. May it be the right one. But I noticed you said you wanted him sexually.. why don't you go for someone who isn't taken then? Don't ruin a relationship just because you want this guy in bed. You can always wait for him to be single.
2006-08-16 10:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by untilyoucamealong04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower and find someone new to hang out with.
He's already told you no, that seems pretty clear to me.
*IF* he breaks up with his girlfriend and changes his mind regarding pursuing a relationship with you, then you ought to go for it. Until then, play it cool. Chasing a man that doesn't want you is the worst move you can make.
Good Luck!
2006-08-16 10:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kya Rose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get over him cause if you don't you will get hurt or sit him down and have a really good chat, no kissing, no holding hands, just talk. But on the real I would leave him alone.
2006-08-16 10:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a volunteer job at the animal shelter. You'll find out what love is!
2006-08-16 10:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by peacetrain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let him decide. If he wants to or not. Or else you will just get hurt in the end. If he is not that into you, just move on.
2006-08-16 10:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. If his relationship is about to fall apart wait. then wait some more you don't want to be the rebond girl. But don't wait to long you don't want to be the friend he goes to when he's having girl problem.
2006-08-16 10:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nevar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not your partner. You say yourself He has a girlfriend so I think you should find someone else or let someone find you.
2006-08-16 10:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not your heart that's aching, sister. Buy yourself a 10-inch toy, that will remove the pain there between your thighs.
2006-08-16 10:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lynyrd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a girlfriend. Stay away. If he liked you that much, he should break it off with his girlfriend. If he doesn't, and he still does anything with you, he is a jerk, and you shouldn't pursue anything with him anyway.
2006-08-16 10:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by mynickname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋