I absolutely refuse to perform oral sex. I personally feel its nasty and demeaning to women. So tell me why do you enjoy it?
2006-08-16 03:12:46 · 20 answers · asked by greenejl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, i enjoy it because i like to please my man......and he did the same to me.....it is not painful or uncomfortable.
I can say a long time ago i refused to perform oral sex, i felt the same way you did. But, with the right person it is an enjoyable experience......Anything between two consenting ADULTS is not necessarily nasty.....it depends on how the person makes you feel when you are performing any act that matters....
Peace.
2006-08-16 03:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do it... but not that much anymore... it is kind of nasty... I know some guys that will not perform oral sex (on women) either, for the same reasons... but I see your point... never thought of it as demeaning to women before... but now I see your point!!
2006-08-16 10:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only do it with a man I loved, in my case my husband. If you think about it too much, sex itself is pretty gross. You just have to let go and be in the moment. It is about making each other feel good not about being demeaned if you are with someone you are commited to.
2006-08-16 10:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Weeber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel it is demeaning when he does you?
For those that participate it is because it gives the man pleasure. Isn't the whole sex act about pleasure?
2006-08-16 10:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The absolutely ONLY time I enjoy it is if it is when it is by MY CHOICE only and then it is just really a purely selfless act of giving that makes it enjoyable. For sure I doubt there's anything in it for the woman giving it!
2006-08-16 10:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously aren't in a serious long term relationship yet. After you are and you love & trust your partner, it should be exploratory.
It will feel natural to want to try new things with that person. It took me 2 years with my husband to get comfortable enough to do crazy things!
2006-08-16 10:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by LG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy pleasuring my husband and it really isn't all that bad....Y do you think it is demeaning....I like to make eye contact while I do it to see his reactions. And he is always returning the favor :)
2006-08-16 10:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you oviously havent been in love before. I take it your a taker. Do you really think us women enjoy giving b.j's If you do then you already know the answer to this question.
You should try and keep a woman happy!!!
2006-08-16 10:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex wait till your married and if anyone has a problem with that they aren't a good boyfriend and if they don't care about how you feel and if the only reason that they got in the realationship with you is for sex dumping time
2006-08-16 10:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by k-la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I love making my husband feel good. He enjoys it so much. I love the instant response I get out of him and turning him on turns me on!
2006-08-16 10:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋