2006-08-16 03:10:45 · 15 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-16 03:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bawitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be a good conversationalist, know a little about what's going on in the world around you. Be well-mannered, nice, friendly, well-read; have your hair & makeup neat, dress nicely, not necessarily fashionably; know how to handle yourself in social situations. Keep a couple clean & funny jokes in your arsonal. And smile.
When you know you are able to handle anything that comes at you, you are confident.
2006-08-16 10:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a state of mind, you have to believe in yourself.
Just think of all your positive characteristics and how lucky you are to have them e.g. good conversation, intelligence, health, consideration, come from a good family,( looks dont even have to count!), there must be dozens of things.
Then totally blot out any negatives, they are private for you to work on and nobody elses business - if you were selling a car you would not say "its great but the radiator leaks" you would just say "It brilliant".
Selling yourself is like selling any other commodity, just believe you are worth what you are after.
2006-08-16 10:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence comes when you believe in yourself. Believe yourself. Dress up well, see yourself in mirror, give a compliment to yourself. Bear a smile on your face. Great people softly. You will find heads turning towards that will build up your confidence more.
2006-08-16 10:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by ariesaregudfriends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self confidence is being happy with who you are and the way you look...try wearing clothes that you think you look good in , maybe go in for a new hair style..anything that makes you feel good about being you.
2006-08-16 10:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by tess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is first and far most important to have self respect for your self find your good qualities and you'll see a reason to have selfrespect you must like your self first before others will like you
2006-08-16 10:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by relax1166 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- assert yourself
- think of all the positive traits that you have
- don't listen to what other people say (they're just insecure)
- love yourself
- prove to yourself that you're good (you can do what other people can do)
- be optimistic about yourself
2006-08-16 10:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jacky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to decide one day your worth alot and your a wonderfull person and anyone who thinks otherwise is a idiota
2006-08-16 10:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by jaladelanta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy yourself abook about it there are so many... the point though is that it all depends on you sonner you get it the better you live
2006-08-16 10:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to yourself in the mirror.
2006-08-16 10:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by chups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋