i got an email on myspace yesterday from a girl that my man emailed her with "i was looking through your pics and i was wondering if you didnt mind sharing your bed with me? i wont tell your man, if you dont tell my girl." she said no and he said well to keep him in mind. now i know it was from him b/c it click right back to his link on his name. when i asked him about he said that he didnt remember emailing that but he aint gonna lie to me. he told me he leaves messages all the time for people. he said kanda like joking around. he said it is just a computer and nothing would ever happen. i told him that is bs and that i know he is a joker but that was a little to far. am i wrong? am i over reacting or should i be? should i break up with him or sit there and work things out? he said he was sorry and that he didnt think it would hurt me and now he knows that he wont do it again. but it is hard to believe. he never lied to me before nor ever did anything that hurt me. help!
2006-08-16 03:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by lonelyladypink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know he's never lied to you before? And if he is trolling the internet and sending women messages like that if he were out and a woman hit on him he would jump at the chance in a second, think about it
2006-08-16 03:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not in love with this one. My past experiences have told me cut this off at the first slap across the face. I mean what kind of guy does what hes done? And do you really like the fact he would say that to just anyone. Some times I have to believe these stupid things whether a joke, big or small give me the big picture of whats to come. RUN and don't look back!!!!! Ha ha then he will see just how much offering sex to strangers is not so NO BIG DEAL. Good luck either way but in no way let it happen again and again. Don't waste the pretty on a guy who is ugly.
2006-08-16 03:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by sonsweeney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try and work on it but you just lost some trust for him and that will hurt the relationship tell him to stop what he's doing that will leads into cheating what if someone he sends a message like that to says yes we can you think he'll tell them that's just a joke so keep it real with him and if things doesn't change then it's time to leave
2006-08-16 03:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a guy. They can make mistakes, in relationships. FOr instance doing something, thinking it wouldn't hurt you, but actually does. Maybe you should just try to work things out. But if something like this happens again, I would personally dump him, only because he obviously isn't getting the picture.
2006-08-16 03:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he can't be trusted. . . What if that girl had said yes? What if other girls that he's "joking" with have said yes? Doesn't sound good, girl . . . . I'd end it - he should be so in love with you that he shouldn't be testing how much he can get away with. . . .
2006-08-16 03:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love him you can try to work things out, but dont trust him too much. hell have to earn your trust back again. if he does that again i say leave his cheating butt.
2006-08-16 03:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋