I guess it's normal to have misunderstandings but sometimes we have to look at things from our parents' perspective. We can't always just insist that we're right and they're wrong because most of the time, they're the ones who ends up winning because they're actually right.
I guess it's also because we're on different levels of maturity now. They already went through what we're experiencing now so they give us advice which will only lead to children arguing with them saying that they don't understand us etc. Our parents try their best to give us a good life so they tend to not let us experience pain, they don't let us make mistakes, etc. because they don't want us to go through tough things like they did.
I also think that we can be friends with our parents if we try. But we also have to bear in mind that other people's parents can be different from yours, so I really can't say that I'm sure about what I just wrote. I have a nice relationship with my parents, we rarely get into any fights but we have our misunderstandings, not too big though. I'm not entirely sure about your relationship with your parents so I just hope that this answers your question. But do take note of this: We don't really have to fight with our parents if we at least try and understand them and what they're trying to say. Communication is important, be open to them so that they'll know what's happening with you so they won't be suspiscious of anything and jump to any conclusions, etc.
2006-08-16 03:48:16
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answered by Rawrley 1
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We get in fights with the people we love the most. It's frustrating, but normal. You can't be friends with your parents, or at least not until you're older, because that's what they are: your parents. They are supposed to discipline you, not be your friend. Most people don't like being told what to do, so naturally, we get in fights with our parents. We feel the most comfortable with them, and aren't trying to make a good impression, so we yell at them and are rude (which is something we would never do to our boss or a friend). Don't worry- when you're older and your parents don't really have to be parents anymore, you won't fight as much.
2006-08-16 04:32:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Then tell them you have joint custody. Your reasons in the back of it are your person. the reason human beings seem at you wierd is as a results of fact the courts very in maximum cases component with the mum, somewhat if she's a in high-quality condition discern. Or say you gave your husband standard custody when you consider which you concept you will want to your sons, and you nevertheless have confidence him and his parenting skills. Its your call. i think of it became into very in command of you to place your infants's desires above any petty thoughts that divorce ought to reason. A dad is extensive in the lives of his sons. yet you're significant too. i think of its super which you 2 can communicate and nevertheless be being concerned father and mom!
2016-10-02 04:00:15
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answered by ? 4
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Because we are opposite sides of the spectrum.
Experienced-inexperienced
mature-immature
knowledgable-ignorant
Hopefully in time we gradually close the gap and eventually meet up. We can't be best friends because the parent has to ...well be the parent.
2006-08-16 03:09:09
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answered by shae 6
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Its pretty normal i supporse. There are times when our parents are against the things that we want the most, and that's when conflict starts. What's a parent-child relationship without misunderstandings every once in a while?
2006-08-16 03:20:49
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answered by fashionista 2
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Because, at least with my dad, he is always the victim, never the aggressor. Nonetheless, things have to be done his way ALWAYS, otherwise he gets mad. And did I mention that he will tell you things as they are fact, only for you to later find in a newspaper article or such, that he was completly WRONG???
2006-08-16 05:46:14
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answered by mommy_mommy_crappypants 4
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why ? I don't know but what I know its normal to fight with them,even if they were you bff you will still have a fight with them.Just like having a fight with you friends.But the best thing is to always talk to them and explain some stuff to them,and show how mush you appreciate and love them
2006-08-16 03:13:22
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answered by blue_angle 1
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I guess that I am just lucky cause my parents and I get along just fine. We don't see eye to eye on everything but we get along fine.
2006-08-16 03:07:02
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answered by SapphireB 6
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its not necessary that u always have to fight.Try to understand them and help them to understand ur behavior.i think that will help.
2006-08-16 03:44:08
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answered by nya 1
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BECAUSE WE WILL NEVER BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM NOT TRYING TO TEACH SOMETHING WE ALREADY KNOW ISN'T IT PI**** YOU OFF
2006-08-16 03:20:04
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answered by Mag 2
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