The reason I am asking is because my boyfirend and I fight constantly. And when I say constanctly I mean it. 5 minutes into him coming home. on the weekends. whenever. its because he says something and i say something but then it turns into a big fight. i hate it. he hates it. but its so hard to keep the peace. we only have one day a week together (Sunday) and the last two in a row we fought bad. so what now. do i leave him? we live together for 3 weeks now and **** is hitting fan constantly. we didnt fight as much when we were dating and lived separately. if distance is the answer then then we mostly likely will never work. we will split eventually. but i want this to work. we have had good times. what is so stressful abuot living together. he is talking marriage and kids and all that to me but I dont hear it anymore. i dont want to marry into war . and things never change for the better just because you marry a person. i love him, he loves me sex is great-anyone?
2006-08-16 02:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by montana_leather_thong 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in your situation once. Go with your gut feeling-its usually right. Moving in together can be very stressful-but If you don't see each other very often its seems like if things wre truly good then you would get along better. Your happiness is most important-work toward being happy
2006-08-16 02:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear dear heart this should be telling you some you already know the answer listen to your gut.
If it is tell you to break it off then it would pay you greatly to listen because if you don't you may be sorry.
I know you say you love him and he loves you but you fight all the time dear heart that ain't love. You are just phyisically drawn to him and the same for him, this will not work out ever.
He is selfish and pig head self center and does not think your opinion matters when it does.
I have a bother-inlaw that used to be just that why that the good Lord he grew up some.
Most guys though never change they become wife beaters and worst.
Dear you know what you have to do don't be scared dear just do it end this relationship before it ends you.
Their are lots of guys that would Love and respect you and value your opinion.
Well good luck sweet dear .
2006-08-16 09:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna say spend some time apart but if your only seeing eachother once a week than that should b enough 2 feel happy when your around eachother, the only other thing i can recommend is try go away 4 da weekend, take off work and go away 4 like 3 days, somewhere different, somewhere far where u can leave all your troubles behind, if that doesn't work than maybe u guys shouldn't b together, goodluck.
2006-08-16 09:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long were you with him before you started living together? Maybe you just needed more time to mature as a couple. If you both hate what's going on, it means something deeper, like you both know that you have faults and you want to change. Try being aware of what's being said and being open and honest if something offends you. Tell him in a calm way, I mean, really explain it to him. And if it keeps up, you might have to go your separate ways.
2006-08-16 09:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS listen to your gut feelings!!! Relationships are hard enough. No sense in staying committed to a relationship that is a constant battle. Move on BEFORE there is a marriage certificate & kids involved.. Consider yourself lucky!
2006-08-16 09:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "The Truth About Love"....quickly!
2006-08-16 09:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your gut feelings, that is why we have them. Why marry into war? there is too much of it already
2006-08-16 09:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by dreamlesssweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either live with that, have him and you get some professional help or seperate that the choices that you have.
2006-08-16 09:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, women have the 6th sense
2006-08-16 09:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bye Bye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋