The guy I have been dating for almost 8 months now. A guy who have asked me to meet his parents seriously and booked the resturant two months ahead. A guy who is fascinated with my language and culture which he is taking class now. Everytime he come with study questions, I always dropped off my study and helped with him first no matter how busy I was. But I feel he has no respect for my schedule, he just interrupt me anytime when he has a question no matter how small it is! Also, we have not seen each other for almost 10 days, then he came over to see me, he brought his homework and wanted me to take a look first, that is the first sentence he asked me after a short kiss-and everytime I saw him, he never forgot to show me his language homework first, I really feel being used! I asked him and talked to him, he said no, he could have so many others help him, but he is with me because he likes me a lot! My gut feelings don't agree this but I love him-what should I do?
2006-08-16 02:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chances are he's just using you. maybe you should say no help w/o sex first. that'll fulfill both of your wishes.
2006-08-16 02:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by jmthomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your gut feeling it always prove to be right at the end of the day. What u have to do is challenge him to do things u want to do, and if he does not step up, it will hurt because u love him, but u have to leave him because he is obviously using u and it will hurt more in the end when he walks out on you. Be strong.
2006-08-16 10:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by precioustt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duuuhhh, and the answer would be yes... he sees how u put him and his needs first, even before ur own.. so of course he's only calling u when he needs something..
1st never, never put a man or anyones elses need before ur own.. 2nd, if u notice that he only comes around when he needs help w/something or when he needs u to look @ something or when he needs advice on something then u need to drop him like a drug habit..
let him know that u ain't beat and that ur not his tutor, or his study buddy.. let him know that if ur not in a relationship because he likes u but only so he can use u then he needs to step..
leave him even if he says he wants a relationship.. he's already shown his true colors.. ain't no going back, move on...
2006-08-16 09:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as thought he has begun to like you more as a friend than a partner. Discuss it with him. See where you stand.
2006-08-16 09:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it.
2006-08-16 09:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you.
2006-08-16 09:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your gut feeling
2006-08-16 09:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-16 09:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant you see that he's using you or your love is blind.
2006-08-16 09:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by JECCY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋