Been talking to this girl for a month or so...went out with her a couple of times..... We usually talk alot over the internet on all sorts of things!....daily. Unfortunately I'm begining to find my self without any good topics or subjects to talk about with her.... same goes to her i guess. We r ending up talking on the same things frequently and its boring :/
I still like her but apparently I have nothing to talk about with her and its starting to bother me..... does this mean something is wrong?
2006-08-16 02:22:50 · 7 answers · asked by Fisherman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry for got to add that we dont have probs talking face 2 face.... its just when we talk over the internet the prob
2006-08-16 02:38:07 · update #1
Take a break or find really funny jokes or stories and send her the links. It will give you a break from thinking of something to talk about and you will also find yourself getting excited for her to see your funny findings. Also every girl loves to laugh. I bet you she will start doing the same thing and send you funny findings as well.
Now about seeing each other in person: Here are some fun ideas that keep things interesting... Bowling( always fun) and you're constantly moving so you never have to sit during an awkward moment. Comedy shows... check local listings for acts and enjoy laughing together. Swing dance lessons...trust me if she is a girl then she will have fun and don't worry it's not about how you dance it's about who your dancing with that counts when your just having fun. Remember, You have to have fun too or it won't work. If you don't gain a partner after this you will have definitely created a lifetime friend. Laughter goes a long ways! Good Luck!!!
2006-08-16 02:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong ! She is still talking to you, right ? The only thing that you have'nt done is doing something different w/Her, The two of you keep going back -n- forth about the same (Subject/s) If I talked about the same (Things) w/a Woman then, that would be a strong indication that the two of you have not touched basis w/each other about your (True Feelings) for one another. It's like the two of you are (Playing Chess) & know one wants to make a wrong move. Even in a Game of reall Chess,you have to take some chances to open up the (Grid Lock) that is going on between the two of you. Maybe she is not wanting to (Express Her Feelings) towards you, & it could be that you are doing just the same thing, at any rate one of you has to come out in the open about whatever it is that you or She is or has not said to the other. A Woman defenitely wants a Man that is not only (Honest To Himself) but to Her as well. Just as in (Life) you need to take some chances just to get to another level. If you cannot think of something (Different To Say) to Her than, do something different w/Her & that's the time that the two of you can start talking about different things & subjects because the change in (Scenery) will bring out (New & Different) things to say to each other. (Creativity) is alot better vs. Boredom. I really do believe that this (Woman) will appreciate you alot more, because you have taken greater steps into developing a better relationship w/this Woman. When a Woman appreciates a Man, it's because she see's this Man in a new light. Stay Cool & Good Luck !!! rumeoui !
2006-08-16 03:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by rumeoui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys really click then I don't see how you could run out of things to say? I mean if its online...i can see how you could run out of things to say...but in person it shouldn't be like that....maybe you should re think about this relationship if you two can't think of anything to talk about....talking to people you click with really isn't that hard.
2006-08-16 02:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt mean anything is wrong, just means that you have explored this aspect of the relationship. maybe the next step would be to talk to her in person. that will be something different and you will definitely have stuff to talk bout
2006-08-16 02:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely normal and very honest of you to admit this instead of doing what most Internet relations end up doing and that is making up half of what they say to one another...its natural to lessen your conversations and begin to think of adventures you and her can do to replace that extra time you now have.
2006-08-16 02:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope as you talk to her everyday you just ran out of topics to talk about.
2006-08-16 02:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing to talk about, what is it exactly that you like about her?
2006-08-16 02:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋