2006-08-16 02:20:41 · 14 answers · asked by lowonbrain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YouDon'tKnowMe - True, I don't "KNOW" you, but you certainly sound like a very wise soul. GREAT ANSWER, THANKS!
2006-08-16 02:44:48 · update #1
Also, Thank You "onlyhuman" - in fact thank you ALL for such thoughtful remarks. I can see I have my work cut out for me in choosing the best answer to this one.
2006-08-16 02:49:14 · update #2
My most caring and brilliant friend “sheepherder” - I am truly humbled by your kind compliment and even kinder expression of friendship and solidarity. ... Sometimes Unconditional Love means not being afraid of being human which in turn means having the courage to love others not merely for what they bring into our lives but also, and perhaps more importantly, for whom they are. The world maybe full of "Bad Deals", but there is never any regret in the hearts of those who know how to love.
2006-08-19 10:39:18 · update #3
Sorry my friends - there are simply too many good answers here for me to just pick one at random; so I leave it up to you guys. Thank You ALL.
2006-08-19 10:43:42 · update #4
THE SAYING GOES " IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING , SET IT FREE , IF IT COMES BACK , IT WAS MEANT TO BE...."
2006-08-16 02:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by MARY B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are possibly the most intelligent man i've ever had the pleasure of corresponding with. how could you be so naive in this department? unconditional means just that. warts and all! if the separation is of a business nature...well it happens, but unfortunately it sounds to me like you are doing all of the unconditional loving part. that's not how it's supposed to work. Yes, if you love someone unconditionally and you set her free because you think it will make her happy you are to be commended. just don't be surprised when her happiness turns out to be with someone else. bad for you. so sorry i couldn't be light hearted about this one. you're a good person,and i'm very afraid you just got a bad deal.
2006-08-16 14:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes loving someone completely and truly means to let them go. If you know you're not meant for each other, it's better to let go and let time heal the wound rather than cause the wound to grow deeper with time.
Still, unconditional love is being completely selfless. If both people are that way, it's possible to be happy.
2006-08-16 09:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by onlyhuman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question. I would have to say "yes". When you truly love someone unconditionally then you are accepting them as they are and loving them anyway without any hidden agendas to change them. However, if you discover your partner is someone you could never have a healthy relationship with unless they changed, well then it might be best for the two of you to separate and just be friends if you can. :-(
2006-08-16 09:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by YouDon'tKnowMe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its really hard to say but yes sometimes,but it doesnt mean that we dont love them,instead its the other way around.We loved them so much that we can take all the hurt we can get to set them free and let them do whatever makes them happy,I hope your not seriouse about this,God Bless
2006-08-16 09:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just because you love someone doesn't make them a good partner for you, or that you can live together or make a relationship work. Love is.....just love
Among adults there is very little "unconditonal love". I'm not sure it exists.
We love our children "unconditionally" but I think that's about it.
2006-08-16 09:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that UNconditional Love is when you go threw something no matter what it is, you are beside each other to the very end.
2006-08-16 09:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unconditional love is what will keep them from separating.
2006-08-16 09:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think humans are capable of unconditional love.
2006-08-16 09:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by sgrjackson1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never. did God ever separate us from him.? separetion only leaves room for more troubles to come in through the gap that was caused by separation.
2006-08-16 09:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I could possibly see that. If your partner thinks it's best to be separate and/or you think that's best for your partner, then it could demand that.
2006-08-16 09:27:53 · answer #11 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋