I feel so terrible right now. I was talking to my girlfriend of almost 6 months last night and we got on the subject of masturbation. It sounded like she had assumed that I do not do it all. We talked about it before we went out and she said that she didn't like, but I didn't realize how strongly she felt about it untill last night. She said that she would break up with anyone who did it and its pretty much as bad as cheating. I am going to tell her but I need some way to tell her. Any opinions on the subject or some ways of telling her that It didn't mean anything to me and that I am done for good or anything to make me feel better.
2006-08-16 02:20:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also im 15 its not like we are very old.
2006-08-16 02:20:23 · update #1
I want to point out that the thoughts associated with masturbating is what she has a problem with. How can I tell her thoughts are just stupid thoughts that meant nothing?
2006-08-16 02:28:27 · update #2
u dont need to tell her nothing..... what u do alone....can not be considered as cheating. I think she needs to grow up a little more
take care
2006-08-16 02:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Fisherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's an ultra christian you should run like Satan himself was chasing you!!!
Seriously if you are to young to have sex then the only thing you can do is masturbate, or work in a non sexually stimulating environment for 14 hours a day that way you'll be too tired to think about it touching yourself.
Personally when I was your age I was touching it 3 times a day (5 times on Saturday.) When you get older you'll realize there are women who would rather have you touching yourself then other women.
2006-08-16 02:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by sierrajames1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she have a problem with it if your thoughts were of HER?
People have fantasies that they would NEVER act on; but sometimes a little fun....unless they are too perverted & demented, but that's an entirely different topic.
Tell her this is NOT cheating. Not unless you replace her with this & as her partner ignore her needs.
Sex was designed for intimacy between a committed couple. Masturbation is a completely selfish act
2006-08-16 02:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the way she would feel about you doing it, then you can tell her that if that's the case, she should be expected to put out each and every time her boyfriend wants sex, with no argument.
The logic is the same, so either she puts out on demand or gets comfortable with the concept of masturbation. That should reorder her thinking quick.
2006-08-16 02:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say interior the context, sure it relatively is cheating. Masturbation is okay and comprehensible yet once you're in a dating it incredibly is a element of the believe. Over the internet is only disgusting - might you do it interior the path of a save in public? i do no longer care if its nameless. it incredibly is sharing aside of you which you're "promising" to a different guy or woman. Its all approximately being dedicated and finding on the different guy or woman to fulfill your needs.
2016-12-11 09:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys at 15 are, young, and horny. unless you were thinking about another girl i don't think it is that bad and even then it isn't cheating. you can fantasize about other girls, cuz im sure she has had a major crush on a guy and has had fantasizes about him. and you should ask her if she masturbates, a lot of girls do they just don't admit it, but we need to release that sexual tension too. just talk to her, and if she asks who you were fantasizing about say it was her so she will feel less insecure, and if that doesn't work. just leave her she is obviously too immature for a realtionship
2006-08-16 02:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what shes still a kid what the hell !!!!!! see am a gurl some times am n da office go to the washroom n do it coz i feel horney at that time what the hell shoulda do? wait for my B to come n **** me , masturbation is some thing that every body does that , some ppl do it more and some less.
2006-08-16 02:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First masturbation is not cheating. Sounds like your girlfriend need to grow up and get over her sexual issues. Have you tried masterbating together. Unbelieveable!!!!
2006-08-16 02:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by eva c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating... it cheats one partner out of the pleasure of intimacy with the other partner.
She needs to understand that guys between the ages of about 12 to 27, generally go thru the prime-time (sexual peak, strong desire for sex) of their life.
You might want to remember this>>> women don't generally go thru prime-time till between the ages of about 30 to 45.
I don't encourage under-age sex... this info is strictly for helping you understand... for future purposes.
2006-08-16 02:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is stupid, every person old enough to know about sex knows that a guy masturbates every day unless he gets s#x or some kind of sexual release everyday!
2006-08-16 02:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋