i have been going out wit my gf for nearly 4 months and generally everything is great wit us. But lately i have noticed that i actually enjoy it wen we dont speak for a few days, and then when we do i get this feeling in my stomach, and its unexplainable, but it makes me not want 2 talk, and as much as i want 2 start conversation i just cant.
i know deep down that i do still love her, but sometimes it almost seems like it hurts to be with her. What bugs me is there is no reason for me 2 feel this way, everything is great between us, in person i neva feel like this, i love jst spending my whole day wit her, but wen we are apart it jst seems like i dont care anymore.
if someone could share some advice it wud help, because i am very confused.
2006-08-16 02:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its great wen u dont see your girl for a few days. i go thru the exact same ting wit my boyfriend and im wit him the exact same time as ur wit ur girl. deep dowqn u do still care about her or else u wudnt b wit her i guess. are u gettin a bit bored of doin the same ting all the time??? try sumtin new like goin to the movies or go swimming. honestly it works
2006-08-16 02:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son who was dating someone for 3 years and she was always at our home just went through the same feelings. He felt like that they had become comfortable with each other but the real love feelings were'nt there so he broke it off after thinking about it for a long time 6 months and now he is dating and happy all the time. If you love someone there should never be any doubt sure you will have bad days we all do but if it is all the time you need to rethink this out just don't settle.
2006-08-16 09:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see i dont get to see my Fiance unless he is on military leave or i fly to Ga..so i go months without seeing him...Yeah i see where your coming from..not talking for a couple days you enjoy it.however we have no problem starting conversation..honey if it hurts to be with her you need to explain this to her...maybe you need a break for a short while..
2006-08-16 09:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont worry that happens..when im with mine i love it but when im not iwht him it dont bother me as much..i dont feel ive got to contact him at all..its natural id say...i dont think youve changed your feelings...its just maybe your perception of how you feel for your girl...id say maybe an illusion perhaps
2006-08-16 09:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and when ur not wit her who u with??.......maybe u do like her alot and when u have a feelin in ur stomach cuz ur nervous..i feel lik i have butterflies in my stomach when i talk to my bf i guess itz normal...but not carin when u dont talk to her thats weird..
2006-08-16 09:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by sucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to talk to your mom or dad about this. It has something to do with your personal feelings about her and yourself. That's what it sounds like to me.
2006-08-16 09:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you really wanted to be with her you wouldn't feel that way
i dont know maybe you have anxiety around her
2006-08-16 09:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by laurali79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the lack of communication is okay with her?
Either you communicate or not.
2006-08-16 09:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they say abstance makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-08-16 09:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋