ive been with my girlfriend for two months after she'd left an 18month relasionship 2 b with me. At the start of the relasionship if we ever argued she would always come up with some sort of excuse to go and see him. Around 2 weeks ago we'd had a argument and she said she was going 2 stay at a mates house because there was a house party. i found out the next day that her ex had overdosed himself and she'd spent the night with him in the same bed after he was let out of the hospital but she says nothing had happened between them, she was just there 2 support him when he needed her.
I found out that there was never a party and that she'd left the pub with her mates because i was being basically a prat lol. should i believe her when she says that nothing happened,even tho she originally lied 2 me about seeing him at all. was she being a caring ex girlfriend or do u think she slept with him, seen as they slept togeather in the same bed???
2006-08-16 02:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if she DIDN'T sleep with him...isn't she emotionally cheating on you? Should she still care that much for her ex? I'd say ditch 'er. If you will always wonder...it's no fun. And my theory has always been - if she cheated WITH you, she'll more 'n likely cheat ON you. Human Nature.
2006-08-16 02:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by daisylane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think serious about this one. Even if she never slept with him are you happy that she went over to see him and spent the night? If you both argued then you should both be willing to talk it out when you have both calmed down, not expect one of you to run to your ex! Ask yourself if you can see yourself with her in a year? If the answer is yes, then you need to talk to her and get your feelings out so you can start afresh together, if you answer no, then you know what you need to do.
Good luck to you
2006-08-16 09:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mate, I know the feeling. My other half is constantly going out with her ex and it drives me insane. she once admitted to cheating on me once but was really shocked when I admitted to doing it to her months ago. What ya gotta ask yourself is do you really want to be with this woman, because if you do then trust her. If she cheats on you then you need to re-think things. I decided that I wasn't going to throw it away and although it is really hard (well it feels like its tearing me apart sometimes) I'm getting through it, and we are slowly getting there.
Think to yourself, is she worth losing sleep over and if all else fails smack the c*o*c*k*y t*w*a*t in the face, that's what I feel like doing.
2006-08-16 17:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating on you, because it is not that easy to forget an 18month relationship..and if she was with him in the same room and the same bed then off course there is something happened between them..it seems she still love him
2006-08-16 09:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by remember m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tried to over dose would he really be in the right frame of mind to do anything? I dont think so. I think he cant cope with something and needs her.
I dont think she knows what she wants and is using you to feel safe.
Leave her, she'll run to the man she wants - it might be you but it might be him.
You deserve better than to be treated like this and deep down I think you know it.
2006-08-16 09:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh duh!!! Are ya that dumb buddy? Obviously if you really are wondering. Women do not go to their ex's house to play nurse maid. Maybe naughty nurse. But I bet she was taking care of needs. Just not the one's she is telling you about.
2006-08-16 09:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by eva c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she told you no she didn't do anything the fact she lied about it yes maybe but if she never told you about it but you found out definetly
2006-08-16 09:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by k-la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if she cheated on you, but i do know that you can do a whole lot better than settling for being second best.x
2006-08-16 09:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. It comes down to this: you trust her, or you don't. You base your decision on that.
2006-08-16 09:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i say is to watch for more signs of her cheating on you. if you see the signs drop her butt as fast as you can.
2006-08-16 09:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋