My ex and I broke up last summer after three months only going out. No sex was had! Stupid break up really, over nothing as such. He still texts me once a week or so and lately a little more. Last Monday he text me to say he was in the local nightclub and was "hoping to bump into me" Im just so confused by this constant contact, i never initiate contact he always texts me first. Think I still have feelings for him, only seen him once since we split. Im confused help!
2006-08-16 02:13:53 · 20 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is still interested. But are you? You sound like you are more confused about your own feelings. Why don't you meet with him, in a public place. Have lunch, dinner, a drink. And talk. That is pretty much the only way you are going to find out how you both feel. Best Of luck
2006-08-16 02:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun,
Your doing the right thing by not initiating the contact. This leaves a question in his mind also if you still like him. By the way you describe this I sence that he wants to maintain contact - hence an interested in keeping things warm and open. Meeting on your terms would be better as Clubs and Bars are loud places and difficult to communicate. As for feeling confused - their may be other thoughts here that you have not pointed out - the mere fact you are confused means that the feelings are there but you have no factual or reality to base them on - right ? By keeping control of this and allowing yourself to see this guy on your terms you will quickly establish whether or not he cares about your feelings (not being pushy) and see if you can drive up a friendship first.
If the walls of a relationship are respect and understanding you need these first before building a roof over you in the form of love and passion and intimacy. Time is always a good thing long term and you can make decissions based on fact and not just feelings with no basis. Hope this helps
2006-08-16 02:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been a long time since last summer and seem hesitant to contact him so go with your inner feeling an don't. If you really wanted to be with him would you be confused? No you would know right away hey I want to be with him.
2006-08-16 02:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant move on and he takes over every thought then go out with him. but think about the real reason you broke up. if it is a good one then move on there are lots of fish
2006-08-16 02:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by partylitebyterra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... he said he was hoping to bump into you... he still texts you regularly and it's increasing... he always contacts you first...
Nah, he's not into you at all.
2006-08-16 02:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl im just goin to tell you that your best way is to ask him out straight. i know it will probably seem a bit hard. but once you find out it will put your mind at ease. PROMISE!! wish ya all the best xx
2006-08-16 02:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is interested in you or maybe he's just being a friend. Depends what kind of things he says in the messages.
2006-08-16 02:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by KEV S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its pretty fair to presume that he still likes you. he is still chasing you. guys love going after girls till they get what they want, and this guy appears to be doin the with you. if you mentioned to him to get back together, he would. if you had sex with him. he would get bored and try to end it. sad, but thats how some guys work
2006-08-16 02:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have feeling for you and as your break up was over really about nothing, go meet him somewhere and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-16 02:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to give it another go If I was you I would try again with him
2006-08-16 02:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Joanne L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋