In case you don't know what an arranged marriage is allow me to explain. It is when your parents (or other family members) choose for you who your future husband (or wife) will be. Normally, you don't even see your future husband (or wife) before your wedding. The good thing about it is that all of the games single people play with each other is eliminated. Personally, I think I would agree with it if my family asked me, but I'd like to see a picture of my future wife beforehand just so I could tell if I were attracted to her or not. Many people say the phrase: "Looks don't matter". But to me, attraction does matter. What do you think?
2006-08-16 02:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont believe in arranged marriage, but i might consider if you ":introduced me " to someone BEFORE we got married
I believe in blind dates but not BLIND WEDDINGS
2006-08-16 02:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arrange marriage in countrie like India, where tradition plays a major role, arrange marriage is more likely to help u find a better partner.
here, u get a girl coz of your family culture, etc.
All u need to do is KNOW A PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Once parents say OK for marriage, u dont show your opinion untill & unless u meet a partner atleast for a month...know him/her better..be together....If u think u are made fopr each other & your dreams are same then GO FOR MARRIAGE..
Thats it!
But finally I would day:
Either arranged or LOVE marriage 'Your match & partner should be best' Thats it!
Cheers!
2006-08-16 09:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by dinesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actually wouldn't mind,it gives it all a mystery,not knowing who h e is or what his like and having to sleep with him on your wedding night sounds beautifully weird.But then again no bcause imagine we didn't like each other atall,our marraige would in shambles before it had even started.
2006-08-16 09:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Your family may think they know what's best for you, but they don't. Only you know what you want and need and what to look for in your spouse.
2006-08-16 09:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will on the day that i gave up on love marriage...
2006-08-16 13:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the 21st century. does arrange marriages still exist? its so archaic
2006-08-16 09:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!!! even if they were hot...
2006-08-16 09:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋