he moved on without saying a word thats when i knew that he did something behind my back so now im trying to move one but i cant seem to get him out my head or rip him out of my heart.
Here is a list of the things I can't forget about him:
His smile
His mind
The way he said Good-Bye
The way he broke my heart
The way he thought it was all right
The way he looked happy at my tears
The way he looked when I said Good-Bye forever.......
2006-08-16 01:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by Angel to da rescue 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you write very well, your post reads like a poem. It's pretty touching.
Being the one on the receiving end of a breakup is awfully difficult. The unresolved questions swirling through your head is enough to make you just want to stay at home and pull the covers over your head (what did I do wrong? Did he not feel the depth of love I felt for him? Was it me he rejected?)
Unfortunately, it is time that will heal this rift that now resides in your heart. Use this as a growing experience, remember all the great times you had together, take comfort in the fact that the majority of relationships fail and that it wasn't YOU he rejected but the relationship (he may be in a different place at the moment).
Hang in there . . . from what I can take from your post you are a compassionate, caring person who is willing to risk being hurt so you can experience the full power of what a relationship can provide. You WILL find your perfect person someday . . .
2006-08-16 02:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Realise that he doesnt deserve you. if he doesnt even have the decency to explain why he ended it and if he did something behind your back then that list you made about the things u like about him- is secondry to the fact he isn't worth it. I know it's hard and it doesn mean that you will magically get over him but realising this is the first step and until then there is not alot anyone can do. Keep busy, confide in your friends and take each day at a time and most of all realise that you will evenutally be ok
2006-08-16 09:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chocolate
friends.
new dudes,
get your self involved, girl! go take a bike ride or a hike or buy a tent and have a sleepover with your friends, get a job and do something. If you want to forget about him, you have to get him outta your head first. It's guarenteed to get him out a lot if you do something besides mope over him and sit on the couch watching pathetic love movies. Believe me, I just went through a break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. But believe me, if he treats you like crap, and doesn't have an explanation of leaving, and if he did something behind your back, leave him alone. He's not worth your time, trust me on this
Good Luck!
2006-08-16 08:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not the kind of situation that will heal overnight.
Give it time but you know what if he just left you with no reason he is a coward and he never truly deserved you to begin with.
There are plenty of guys out there and from my own experience I know you do not see it that way right now.
But somewhere out there is a guy just for you!
2006-08-16 08:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've had one of those guys in my life and it took a LOOOONNGG time to get him out of my head.
we took turns hurting each other until finally we realized that we just weren't right together.
all i can say is that time will heal your wounds and time will help you forget all of those things about him.
a good way to help the process....
--hang out with your friends as much as possible...that's what good friends are for! and don't be afraid to tell them that you need some more time with them b/c of your mending heart, they will understand and come to the rescue!
--meet someone new. he doesn't have to be the love of your life, but just someone that you know isn't going to rip your heart out and someone who will take your mind off the ex for awhile. (i.e. rebound person)
take care and it will get better...i promise.
2006-08-16 09:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love the poem, I do not think that people realize the last line in it. If you did not mean to be poetic you were. I love it! Shows strength, I hope that he reads it and sees that he did not hurt you as badly as either of you thought that he did.
2006-08-16 08:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forgetting someone whom have been apart of our life is very impossible but try to open your heart again and consider him as the best part of the story of your life. because for getting him will never happen, assured because this already happen to me. BE ASSURE THAT YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS.
2006-08-16 08:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by a comedian yet very sensous man. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is so typical, but just think ur some cold hearted ***** and that gettin him out of ur life is not much of a big deal! hahahaha!
2006-08-16 08:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by shereenchn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go to a strip club lol,
hang out with some gay guys that works all the time :)
2006-08-16 08:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you can start by meeting new guys....and hang out with your friends and have fun....and just say to yourself forget him.. i dont need him to be happy..sorry to hear that though
2006-08-16 08:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by jsdgam3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋