i've been w/my bf for 18 months now-we've split a couple of times but have been together straight for 7 months.i'm 27 w/3 little girls ages 4,5,& 7. he's 28-no kids-never married.
he tells my girls that he loves them and has been telling me since 3 months into our relationship. we talk often but not everyday-we both work nites-same days and hours. when i hv my girls he'll spend time w/us at least once a week. when i don't hv the girls i spend the nite at his house. he never spends the nite at mine when the girls are there. his whole family loves me-i call his mother mom and he's met mine.
we've talked about living together and marriage. he just asked me last week where a good place to buy a ring was and where the stores that i suggested were located.
when he speaks of the future-it's always a "we" not an "I" and any changes he makes to his house-he asks my opinion first or includes me in the change.
could he want me for a wife?
2006-08-16 01:42:25 · 8 answers · asked by prncessang228 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people do get divorced-it happens alot actually.
i have kids to moving in right away wasn't the right thing to do-the kids need to get used to us being a family...
i have joint custody of my children so on the days i don't have them-i stay at his house b/c it's bigger than my apartment and closer to the places we like to go....
2006-08-16 01:54:12 · update #1
Well, nobody except him can know that for sure, but I think "YES".
It sounds like he's in love with you. And I wish that you two get married and have a happy life together!!!
The best of luck!
2006-08-16 01:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but this sounds like a quite a mess. Why are you divorced (why have the details been omitted) and why is "living together" one of the options with this new fellow? And why are you spending the night at his house?
2006-08-16 08:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All signs point to yes but keep your enthusiam under wraps until you know for sure. You don't want to embarrass yourself or the guy by assuming the wrong thing. He obviously cares for you so let him get it out on his own time. Good luck kiddo!
2006-08-16 08:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be a good man for you. a lot of man will not want a wife with kids from another man.
2006-08-16 09:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by bigbubba200314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly yeah. and although we all know what we want the outcome to be, lets not get ahead of ourselves here. relish the goodness of everything. and if its meant to be, like we all hope it is, it will be.
2006-08-16 08:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds promising.
2006-08-16 08:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that he's thinking of it.
2006-08-16 08:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ice Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATELY
2006-08-16 08:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋