What should I do when I have crush on a girl but afraid to approach her /?

Question

I'm a 15 year old boy. I have crush on a girl in my class. I'm good at studies. She also studies well. Well, the problem is, a lot of other guys are having crush on this girl. Actually, I've never felt anything on a girl. But, this is the first time I've felt this feeling . The girl is hot. But, it was the goodness in her eyes that attracted me. Everyone else are seeking her bcuz of her looks. But I'm not. Everyone else are showing off before her. I hate showing off. I know a lotta hacking and have 2 sites with which I make $105 every month. But, I havent ever told this to her. Actually, I'm afraid to approach girls. Pls.....can anyone tell me what I shud do. Can any girl give me a woman's weakpoints ;-). Or...Am I too young for this ?

PLS HELP THIS POOR GUY !!!

Answer 1

first things first, you should try to be friends with her first. just engage her in a pleasant, normal conversation and don't act too nervous around her, but don't act like a big-headed jerk either. try to be a gentleman, and when she tells you something try, or at least pretend that you're deeply absorbed in what she'd saying. whe you're both close enough to be considered friends, smile at her when you pass her in the hallways. when she senses that you have feelings for her, she may or may not return your feelings, depending on whether she feels, or will start to feel the same for you. if you play your cards right, you might just get the girl of your dreams, and no, i don't think you are too young for this sort of thing. it's normal and i'd be worried if you didn't do something like this. good luck!

Answer 2

I answer questions like this all the time, and my answer never differs. Fake it. Whenever you find yourself in one of those situations where you're afraid to do something just think about what would you do if you were confident. If you were confident would you approach her anyway? What would you say? How would you say it? How would you walk up to her? How would you stand? Because you would be confident, you would approach her, you'd say hi in a voice loud and clear enough that she should hear you and you shouldn't have to repeat it (don't softly mumble hello). You'd walk up to her standing tall and proud looking right at her, not hunched over in a shuffle, looking around at who might see you get rejected. You'd stand the same way, tall and proud, but relaxed. Alright, you got that scenario in your head? You got a clear picture of what you look like if you were confident? Fantastic, now fake it. Pretend you're confident, approach her walking tall and proud, confidently say hello, ask if you can take a seat next to her (or buy her a drink, or whatever else might seem appropriate for the situation and surroundings). Then just continue asking questions. Don't drill her with questions, just ask open ended questions and make small talk. What's your major? What year are you? What made you choose that major? Where are you from? What's that town like? Before you get into "20 questions" set up your next move. Would you like to study together sometime? Or, would you like to go grab a bite to eat sometime? Or simply would you like to hang out together sometime? If she says yes, then get her number, tell her you'll call her later, and walk away. And walk away in the same calm confident fashion you approached her with. Don't go skipping away like a giggling school girl. You do this enough times, with enough girls, or in other facets of your life, and you'll become confident. You won't have to fake it anymore. And what's the worst that can happen? She says no you can't sit next to her? Big deal, now you know she's not interested (even a little bitchy) and you go back to your seat. What if she says no, she's not interested in hanging out sometime? So what? You know she's missing out on a good time, and a great guy (even if he is shy, and self-conscious). Keep trying with other girls, and understand that rejection isn't that big a deal. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on.

Answer 3

for a start realise that the only reason theis pretty girl hasnt got a boyfriend is that all of you boys are too shy and embarrassed to go and ask her out. Some show off in front of her others do other stupid things to try and attract her attention. All she is waiting ofr is a boy with enough courage to ask her out without the fear of rejection all the other boys have (which is why they arent asking her pout) If you want to get along furthur with this girl you have to be prepared to take rejection, go up to her and boldly sayNO dont get all hot and sweaty and embarrassed) Go to her and say "Hi i think you are really lovely and I'd really like to get to know you better. would you like to go to....Movies, drink. whatevever ..with me on ..and here make sure you have an exact time and date or she will ask you sure when and then youll stumble and falter and loose her. so be preapred exactly where and when and how. Try it you have NOTHING to loose. Good luck. Ask yourself one thing why is it that the prettiest girl is always alone yet the ugly ones always seem to have so much fun and loads of bfs...its as I said earlier because you are all eshy about asking out the prettiest..go on be the first DO IT!!!!!

Answer 4

first of all u r not young for this secondly try talking to her start as a friend and always be truthful (girls don't like lying) also get to know her interests and see what u have in common if u seriously like her then do not think whether other guys like her or not instead focus on ur ownself. Their are no common weak points in girls every girl has different weak points
Best of Luck and may u get ur girl

Answer 5

Well, first you have to realize that she is just as scared probably. Then above all get your confidence. She is probably tired of getting asked out, so you should just start a friendly conversation with her. If she likes you you will be able to tell by her eyes and body language. From a womans point of view what we like most is the unwavering confidence, humor, friendship, and of course the fairy tale. Someone who will stand up for us but also let us be independant. Someone who really listens to what we say and values our opinions. Take it slow. Let her tell you what she wants out of life and love. You guys are young to jump into anything fast so be there for her but dont push her.

Answer 6

You seem like a very good guy :) Be the best friend with her as you can be and when appropriate moment come tell her you feel something more for her. You're not young, I don't think so :) If she likes showing off that's not very good for you, but anyway try to be different (but of course stay yourself) from other guys who have crush on her.
Be gentle and tell her, if you're ready :) good luck! :)))

Answer 7

when i was 15 last yr i too faced the same problem
i loved a girl by name sonia karapurkar
she was exactly perfect
and thesame conditions
but when i gathered courage to tell her it was late
so my friend tell her as soon as possible if u dont want to just dream about her the rest of life and stop that hacking
its like robbing
and robbing is a big turn off

Answer 8

Just be yourself and talk to her about things that interest you. Find out what interests her. If her interests are the same, you'll have something in common. Build from there.
Do not approach her with your income. That is not what you want to start a relationship with, or it will become what the relationship is about.

Answer 9

Since you already feeling this then you are old enough for it. I'd advice you try to be friends first then talk to her as the relationship grows.
When you are her friend you will find out her likes and dislikes and you'll know from there. Follow your heart.

Goodluck Buddy!!

Answer 10

If simply walking up to her and start a conversation a problem try this: Get a friend...preferably one who isn't attracted to her, have him run and "accidently" bump into her, hard enough to either make her or her books fall, just make sure you're close enough to be the first to help her up or get her books and then try something like : "Maniac! (Looking towards your friend) are you okay?" and there you go.You take it from there.