2006-08-16 01:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by saradhamma - 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Love your children through everything, but also don't try to be their friends. See this everyday where parents say that their kids don't have to follow rules and get mad at people who tell their kids that they need to follow the rules.
2006-08-16 01:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard being a perfect mother, do what you think is right, but give your kids the best quality time, by reading to them , talking to them, and even sharing your little secrets ( not the important ones ) with them, they will feel that you trust them and they will trust you in return,
one more important thing is never lie to your kids, cause if they found out they will think that it is OK to lie as long as their mom is doing so, fulfill your promises or never promise unless you can fulfill.
and the most important thing is to accept your child the way he is, do not try to change him according to your liking, encourage what they like and work with them to improve it. Good luck, it is not easy at all.
2006-08-16 01:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no guidelines to being a good mother,we all make mistakes! Be loving,affectionate. Listen to them when they have something to say,don't just petend to,really listen they know the difference! set guidelines and stick to them. Let them know that u will always be there for them NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!!!One more important thing,when they enter a room or the house try to make your face light up (even if u are having a bad day) children are very sensative if they see a scowl they will assume it is meant for them.
2006-08-16 02:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Linda G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thin:
1) Made good food.
2) Do not say Evey day clean your room to your child.
3) If she/he dose not mood for some thing do not made them force.
4) and help in lesson.
all the mother in the worlds are perfect.. like my mom.
2006-08-16 01:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your own mother & grand mother.
2006-08-16 01:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself - this alone makes you a good mother.
2006-08-16 01:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sune' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugs and kisses,Love and truth, warm cookies and smiles,a forgiving heart and a soft voice..Yes this is what makes a mother good.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-08-16 01:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is give your child plenty of love, never let them go a day without telling them you love them. Give them plenty of hugs and kisses and ALWAYS encourage them, no matter if you think that they won't succeed. That's what life's about, trying things and finding out if you can or cannot do them.
2006-08-16 01:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to now, I am still learning.
A good mother Must have Patience, understanding and always know that mum always suffers and rarely do you hear your kids say "Thanks mum for all you have done, till you are a mum yourself."
2006-08-16 01:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your kids...apprciate them even when they can drive you totally crazy...they are human just as us...only smaller, their feeling are honest and important...be honest with them and they will be honest with you...altho the truth sometimes hurts, it's the best example you can give, without criticism
2006-08-16 01:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋