I've been with my other half for a year and 4 months. Sometimes he goes out with his friends or they call him and I've never met these "friends" in the entire course of our relationship. He says that my meeting them is irrelevant to our relationship. This makes me feel insecure. Am I in the wrong here in not being able to trust? I've introduced him to everyone I know. I always include him whenever I go out. Yet, he feels quite comfortable just going out with his friends and never even thinking to invite me.
2006-08-16 01:10:12 · 12 answers · asked by CheekySlag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not ok...not at all, it is of course ok for him to go out at times with his friends, but for him to never have introduced you to them is just plain untrustworthy....as much as you might think youlove/like him.....dump him.
2006-08-16 01:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS you said, you always include your bf to all your gatherings or introduce him to your friends or people that are close to you, this is normal and proper if you love a person. If he does love you he should be proud of you, accepting you and making you feel like a part of his life. And one of the normal thing he should do is to introduce to his friends, specially if he is proud of you. All my bfs who loves me never hide me to anybody, instead they are just so proud to introduce me as his gf nd it really feels good. I dont know why he is not doing this to you. Maybe he is not proud of you or maybe he is insecure that he doesn't want his friends to know you or see you.
You have to ask him why. You cant just live in this relationship where it seems like no trust, acceptance and confidence. You'll feel more insecure or him and sooner or later it will affect your relationship.
2006-08-16 01:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a no no. notwithstanding if your g/f won't appear like she is botherd, she is in all probability laying unsleeping thinking approximately it, its ok so you might have women pals of path it is, yet what you may/won't no approximately women is they get surprising paranoid v.actual. purely say on your gf , you will see a chum, and decide for a drink, then you rather wouldnt be mendacity to her , yet you would be protecting her from stressfull strategies that garanteed she would be able to contanplate.. and produce into each and every argument. desire you're making the spectacular determination, stable luck.
2016-10-02 03:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
He's hiding somethig
Don't be insecure. It's his loss.
Intentionally run into some of yours and dont introduce his butt.
Don't be mean while your doing it just smile and have a conversation with who you run into and hold his hand or keep your hand on his back thruout the entire conversation.
2006-08-16 01:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to me as an insure person. He thinks that by introducing you to his friend, you may like one of them and dump him. Though, I hope that I am wrong and there is another reason.
2006-08-16 01:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was my situation I'd be wondering what the heck was going on. Sounds like his friends might not know he has a girlfriend.
2006-08-16 01:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u not, u introduced him 2 every1 u knw, its only fair if he do the same, maybe he probably ashame of u but watever it is he should introduced u 2 his friends.
2006-08-16 01:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Babygurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be insecure or have a friend who likes flirting with his women.
2006-08-16 01:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if you have been see each other over three months you should both introduce to your fiends and BF/GF
2006-08-16 01:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well put your foot down... ask him if he's embarrassed of u.. ask him what's wrong with you coz of which u'r not allowed to be part of his life... ask him what's he got to hide if there's nothing...
if he's got nothin to say, then he's got someone else that he's sharing his time with, not friends
2006-08-16 01:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋