my husband likes cheating on me at any opporturnity he gets. what should i do
2006-08-16 01:09:55 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have u considered castrating him. that is the only way to stop him from ever cheating again
2006-08-16 02:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by ijlafia2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl
I think you know the answer yourself ... Only you don't want to think about it.
Some men feel too insecure to remain with one woman, they need to cheat, simply so they can boost their self-confidence. It's a matter of values, from respecting their marriage vows, being loyal to the woman they married or putting themslves a,d needs first. So in this essence your husband is acting in a very selfish manner.
For you, just as any woman cheated on ... It's a big problem and for various reasons. To start off your confidence is affected, you lose your self-worth, wondering what is wrong with you, how come you cannot be the only one he wants. So you blame yourself, look at yourself in the mirror finding faluts, flaws that aren't even there! And was he not so selfish ... He would realise what he's doing to you, how his infedility affects you. And maybe he does but doesn't care enough!
Some women choose to break away from cheating husbands, leave and start afresh. It takes them a long time to heal, learn to love and value themslves enough to then not embark in a new relationship until their new partner knows not to be disloyal or else ... Told to walk! Other women choose to remain with their cheating husband, because it's more practical, easier, they still love him, feel he'll grow out of it. And some do if many never change.
No one can tell you to either walk or stay! It has to be your own decision. But personally i do know that, was my partner to cheat on me ... He'd be out off my life for good. I love him just as he loves me but love in itself wouldn't be enough. I cannot love anyone i cannot trust you see!
So whatever you decide ... Good luck Girl
Best wishes
2006-08-16 01:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him not to put himself in a position where this may happen. This means don't be alone with a woman other than yourself especially when drunk.
If this fails get ur solicitor to send divorce papers to him. this will be a final wake up call. Doesn't mean you have to go through with it but at least if he still cheats, the wheels are in motion and you are in control.
2006-08-16 01:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chris J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to decide weather you can handle this if you stay with him then here is some things you should consider what if he gets someone pregnant ? what if he transmits an std to you this could be nasty and life threatening ? there are a million other reasons as well.i know this must be heart breaking for you but surely your worth more than this . if all else fails tell him you have done it see how he likes being on the other end of it but then if he can bring himself to sleep with other people he doesnt care much .
2006-08-16 03:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by xamyx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girlfriend, but him a one week holiday in Spain on his own, then while he's gone sell the house, car, everything - say adios to the jerk.
Move away from him leave no contact number and start to live your life a fresh. There are plenty of really great guys out there so don't waste your loving on A-holes.
2006-08-16 01:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants to cheat then leave him. I wouldn't stay with a man if he wanted to cheat on me every chance he got. You don't know what he is going to bring home to you. Leave him and file for a divorce.
2006-08-16 01:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could leave him
you could try and find out why he cheats
you could go out and cheat on him
or you could introduce a threesome
or the both of you could join a swingers club - that way both know who the other is with and when.
2006-08-16 01:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by YeeHaa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a movie on t.v. one time about the same thing. But the woman dressed up as someone else and met her husband and started having an affair with him unbeknownst to him.
2006-08-16 01:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him. or give him "one last chance". if he breaks that chance, move out or something. no woman should take a man who likes cheating. A man shouldn't even know whether he likes cheating or not. take care of yourself and just get rid of him.
2006-08-16 01:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him on everyopportunitty you get and ask him how it feels ;)
or tell him that you would like to have sex with his woman too,
or just have with him two hours a sex, every day so he wont be able to use his penis with other woman,
you did not say if you have sex with him everyday of just when x-mass comes, so i can not advice you anything more i just did
2006-08-16 01:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋