My girlfriend wants to have threesome with another girl, could this harm our relationship?

Answer 1

Some people have all the luck!!!!

Answer 2

It depends. Are either one of u the littleist bit jealous? Can u handle another person pleasing her? Can she handle u being pleased by another woman? Although exciting and probably something every male would want, there is a chance things will change after that happens. What if she likes being with a woman alot and then hooks up with the girl behind your back. Or what if u end up wanting to be with this girl more? These really are the questions u need to think about and discuss. Now, if u are both secure with yourselve and your relationship and see it as only sex, then I say u have nothing to worry about. But remember if there is a chance that one of the above will happen, was that hr of fun worth losing what u two have? Good Luck

Answer 3

Yes some couples can have a threesome and it be fine but for others it is very bad. Your girlfriend probably just wants to sleep with a woman and figures if you join in it wont be cheating.

Answer 4

yes . you could end up perfering the other women . or your gf might find that once she has done a threesome sex with one person is not enough she might always want the buzz of tryin different things in sex ie she might want a 3 some with another man soon . its all very well havin 3 somes but sometimes they back fire . is it worth the risk . i would say its not .

Answer 5

That all depends ...

If she wants it and you dont .. then yes.
If she likes it more than being with you alone ..then yes

If you both agree to it and enjoy it .. then no.
If you both agree to it and enjoy it and she really appreciates you giving her the chance ...then no.

What I am getting at is that you need to be absolutely sure that you are comfortable with it and that it is an addition to your lives not a replacement else you have far bigger issues to discuss.

In general I would say that it is a big risk to take unless you are very sure of your relationship - in which case you wouldnt be asking this ......

Answer 6

Yes it will.
If not now in the funture.
Usually it's the guy that wants that not the girl.
She is suspect.
Go to the bookstore and get this book called THREESOMES it is filled with case studies. All of them end up jacked up.

Answer 7

Threesomes are like communism. Good on paper.

in practise, I know more than one relationship destroyed like that.

Answer 8

is she really ur girl friend!?!!!!!!!!!!
she is a f u c k e n b i t c h
would u accept threesome with her and another man?!!!!!!!!!
of course that will destroy every thing from the inside
or maybe she is testing u
if u'll say yes, then u r a bad guy and she'll have a big fight with ya
if u'll say no, then u r the good guy, and she'll love u more

Answer 9

Of course that is something done with friends, whenever you bring a third party into your relationship even for one night there are usually long term consequences. Don't do if you love her.

Answer 10

How will you know unless you try it and find out?

You're gonna get "Yes" and "No" answers because of other peoples experiences, and as your relationship is different to theirs, then you cannot rely on the fact their individual experience will mirror your own.

If YOU don't want to do it then tell your girl so, if you DO then get jiggy wiv it.

Njoy ;;-)

Answer 11

I think that depends on the parties involved. And how strong your feelings are. And how secure in the relationship you both are. Your questions make me believe you are a little apprehensive.