I've been with my boyfriend for 5yrs & 2yrs of it was a long distance reletionship. Recently I found out that he is going out with a girl 3 years older than him for 2 months & he denied it when I asked him about it, untill I could prove him I knew what is going on. He has never acted like this before. He says he don't know what happened to him & he'll prove me he love me if I give him one more chance. Can I trust him? Will once a lier always be a lier or does some guys really change? I don't know what to do?
2006-08-16 00:56:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to leav him
2006-08-16 01:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by abo al hzm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a few exceptions to guys that do this- but I have always thought that if they did it once they would do it again... I would never forgive someone who was unfaithful. It will hurt to let him go... but you deserve someone who will be faithful to you. Infidelity is one of the hardest things to overcome- if in the future you cant find him and don't know where he is, cant get a hold of him.... what will be running through your mind? Sorry honey, but the trust will never be there again.
2006-08-16 01:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much of him being 'once a liar, always a liar'. It's got to do with the fact that your bf will continue to cheat/lie as long as you give in to him. You need to put your foot down and remind him that you aren't gonna let him have things his way....and if he wishes to have things his way, you're gonna leave him.
2006-08-16 01:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is highly impossible for guys not to cheat,but the fact that he is in denial it means he still love and care for u,u can give him a second chance that's if you still love him and not forgetting that in a relationship you can love a person but leave a room for disappointment in your heart on that you can go a long way.good luck girl
2006-08-16 01:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i relize u might love him but i think if he cheated once he will do it again! no i don't think u can trust him cuz he lied to u for 2 months no guys never change well i am sorry but i hope this helps good luck
2006-08-16 01:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by blonde chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I needed to read was the question and I have your answer (rest assured though, that I did read your details after). If someone cheats on you once it's their fault, if twice, then it's your fault too.
2006-08-16 01:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him. Think about it. He knew you lived far away and he took that as an ADVANTAGE OVER YOU. I would find myself someone new. Good Luck with that!
2006-08-16 01:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Denim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.. he dun deserve someone as gd as u... he's jux nt the right one for u ..long distance relationship is always difficult to maintain..
2006-08-16 01:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by FaErIeOfDoOm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am even shoked you dont know what to do!!no matter how much you love him,i think its best you live him and i think you got your pride!!honestly,would you ever trust him even though you go bak to him???live him alone....he doesnt care about you if he can cheat on you n the worst part,he denied it the first time!!!!
2006-08-16 01:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's the truth because he knows if you let him get away with it once, you'll let him do it again, and he WILL do it again.
2006-08-16 01:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by A*n*o*n*y*m*o*u*s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jenny move on and find someone else. sorry but in a relationship, if somethng like this happens, it wont stop. he might get better at hiding it but thats it
2006-08-16 01:29:52 · answer #11 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋