my friend was got pregnant 2 years back. abortion had done immidately in early stage. as there was no stiching. Now she is afraid that her husband will come to know about the abortion. And also she is afraid of that that she can concive in future again. is any test can prove that she was aborted before. As she feels that if she is fail to concivein future then her husband will take her for some medical checkup is that can prove that she was aborted before... Please help
2006-08-16 00:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by rani c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
When you go to the doctor while you're pregnant(which I presume she will at some point) they ask you if you've ever been pregnant before. And she would need to tell the doctor. But maybe she can do it while she's alone with the doctor? But they do ask.
2006-08-16 01:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by ★Fetal☆ ★And ☆ ★Weeping☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WARNING and something to calm you (or your friend?) down.
The information you share with your doctor is now available on a computer that is accessed EVERY time you visit the doctor. Anyone in the room can read that screen. I know I can see my history each time, and also the names, ages and conditions of the last 7 women in the office before me. That stinks to me. You (she) should tell your doctor and she can tell her husband, too. He won't love her any less because she did that, he'd love her less if he knew she didn't trust him enough to share.
About her fear of conceiving, let her know with God all things are possible. I thought I was infertile (for good reason) but I'm sitting here with my second and my husband's 1st baby about to be born in 8 weeks. I went for fertility testing. The biggest thing here is TELLING THE DOC you (or your friend?) were pregnant before. Nothing was wrong then and guess what? ABORTION does NOT cause infertility, so she'll likely give her husband babies. Only the heart and mouth can reveal a past pregnancy or an abortion.
Peace.
2006-08-16 04:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can conceive if you'd had an abortion in the past. Second, I'm not sure if the doc will be able to tell if you've aborted the past without performing an examination, if even then. You must tell your doc though about the abortion and by law, the doc cannot tell your hubby or anyone else.
I know you've been told this, but secrets do eventually come out. Good luck.
2006-08-16 01:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are signs that will tell if you had an abortion before you need to talk to your husband about this the doc want share your info if you ask him not to but don't live with this secret it will eat you up or come out one day
2006-08-16 02:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband wont's know. At her prenatal appointments she does need to tell the Dr that she has had a previous pregnancy that was ended with an aboirtion. Other than that the Dr can't tell her husband
2006-08-16 04:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may try 2 weeks when you had sex. you may want to nevertheless get pregnant inspite of if he pulled out formerly. this isn't an valuable way of birth control. he might want to have pre cummed and also you may want to nevertheless get pregnant. men won't be able to sense it even as the pre in any respect. please bypass get on the pill so that you gained't ought to rigidity your self. best of luck ! =)
2016-11-25 20:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should tell the truth to her husband - that is a very big deal. he should know that the woman he is married to has killed a baby.
2006-08-16 03:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋